Although this is a not a good look at all and a horrible stat I don't think its the reason why the black community is the way it is........if a child is loved on both sides of the family than everything should be alright......people are getting too caught up on the "Wedlock" factor and missing the point. Its how you raise your kids that counts
me personally my first born was born out of wedlock and I was married but me and my last two's mom didn't work out......they barely know the difference except we just don't live together....its true that with that stat people are being wreckless....not caring about diseases or bringing a child into this world but all in all it has to do with RESPONSIBILITY....we need to make better choices and be responsible with them but if you make the wrong choice we need to be responsible and deal with the consequences....point blank, period.....so hopefully this isn't looked at as a propaganda film or one that exploits our mistakes but hopefully this hits home to some people to step up and be smarter
just my opinion
Marriage is essential to building a solid family bruh. Honestly IMO its the only reason it even still exists.
A child needs to have two people in a household. The most obvious reason is that costs are curbed substantially in a two parent home. Parents have the opportunity to make smarter but more expensive choices for their childrens sake (diet, schooling, nutrition, home location). Then there's communication and nurturing aspects. Two people are just more effective than one and are essential in providing healthy home for a kid.
Like dont' get me wrong, I agree with you slightly that raising a child well can be done in a "broken home" or with separated parents (the term i prefer).
But remember how I said two people are more effective and are essential for kid rearing? Well when you produce a child out of wedlock, you significantly lower your chances of marrying/remarryring. Even worse is that even if you do remarry, there is most always a rift that exists between the child and stepparent or kids will wind up resenting one of their parents a lot more due to the feelings of resentment that linger (and parental resentment manifests in some very unhealthy ways....)...
TL;DR ver...What i'm trying to say is that wedlock just needs to be avoided at all costs.
I'm not apart of this problem; I'm waiting to have a children when I get married. #nobabiesoutofwedlock
Damn bruh I did not know
