You never lied, Breh.
Long read but I want to share my experience.
I just finished a volatile relationship with one earlier his week after almost 2 yrs.
Everything was an issue. Last week I joked with her about anal sex (we both ain't pressed bout it) she told me I joke bout it too much and sent me this & told me to read the last part especially
I could never joke with the broad without there being backlash.
We talked about the Kendrick line and how her FEMS were gettin their panties in a bunch, her reply: 1) Natural beauty as long as it still fits into what's acceptable. I don't see no hairy legs or armpits or acne or fat bodies or nappy hair or dark skin 2) it's still reducing women down to their physical appearance. Is that the only way they are capable of uplifting us? 3) women are free to do what they want with their bodies, and many women enjoy hair and make up and other modifications. so this whole thing of natural vs 'fake' screams of respectability politics. Afterwards, I told her to get over herself and she ignored me for the whole weekend
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That shyt was a wake up call for me to shake her. During the relationship she never took ownership over issues that popped up and always played the victim.
I've been the happiest I've been these last couple days. I got head from a natural Bantu braids sista last night & got another date lined up with another youngin this weekend
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I'm waking up to text from my ex saying, "I don't even know if this means anything to you, but I love you, have loved you all this time and still will. Peace." And "Regardless of how you feel, I'm thinking of you and I care about you very much."
All in all it was my fault for keeping the relationship going and trying to fight through it for the sake of peace. Plus the ass had me hypnotized
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We were supposed to go to London but, now I'm in the process of getting the tickets turned over so my boy can go with me.
OP you deserve DAPS+REPS for letting me dump my dirty laundry in your post.
Long read but I want to share my experience.
I just finished a volatile relationship with one earlier his week after almost 2 yrs.
Everything was an issue. Last week I joked with her about anal sex (we both ain't pressed bout it) she told me I joke bout it too much and sent me this & told me to read the last part especially
I could never joke with the broad without there being backlash.
We talked about the Kendrick line and how her FEMS were gettin their panties in a bunch, her reply: 1) Natural beauty as long as it still fits into what's acceptable. I don't see no hairy legs or armpits or acne or fat bodies or nappy hair or dark skin 2) it's still reducing women down to their physical appearance. Is that the only way they are capable of uplifting us? 3) women are free to do what they want with their bodies, and many women enjoy hair and make up and other modifications. so this whole thing of natural vs 'fake' screams of respectability politics. Afterwards, I told her to get over herself and she ignored me for the whole weekend
.That shyt was a wake up call for me to shake her. During the relationship she never took ownership over issues that popped up and always played the victim.
I've been the happiest I've been these last couple days. I got head from a natural Bantu braids sista last night & got another date lined up with another youngin this weekend
. I'm waking up to text from my ex saying, "I don't even know if this means anything to you, but I love you, have loved you all this time and still will. Peace." And "Regardless of how you feel, I'm thinking of you and I care about you very much."
All in all it was my fault for keeping the relationship going and trying to fight through it for the sake of peace. Plus the ass had me hypnotized
.We were supposed to go to London but, now I'm in the process of getting the tickets turned over so my boy can go with me.
OP you deserve DAPS+REPS for letting me dump my dirty laundry in your post.
Never met a feminist IRL. Seems like online babble.
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