5 out of 7 nights husband has to masterbate because his wife says she's too tired: Who's at Fault?
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Dorian Breh
Veteran
Wouldn't have these problems if he knew bazillion jew jiutsiu his woman's sex drive would be increased just by being in his presents 
Ronnie Lott
#49erGang
If a solution can't be found, they need to get a divorce. Simple as that, no one should resign themselves to misery. That doesn't mean dude should step out though.
It's a sad situation. Dudes shouldn't have to beat their meat more than gettin sex from wifey.
There's plenty of women who fake the funk in the relationship stage or even honeymoon stage but when everything's "settled" they're okay with counting on their hands how many times they have sex a year.marry bishes who don't like having sex brehs
But he gotta bust every night though?
There are many dynamics here.
1.) Are their sex drives compatible? Believe it or not there are some women who have very high sex drives as well. One of my female friends divorced her husband partly b/c of this.
If he is with a chick with a low sex drive...lmao she still should be putting out. I was always told you should be having MORE sex when ur married than when u are single.
2.) What job does she work and does he help around the house? I know dudes got this idea that when u get with a girl u supposed to have a live-in maid/fukk toy
but reality is she's a human being. If she is working full-time (which she probably will be unless she is a bum bytch or ya'll are traditional), taking care of the kids, cooking AND keeping a clean place (unless she's once again a BUM bytch), then fukking u is just one more thing to do. The easy way to fix it is to...oh I dunno...help out.
For instance, she is a teacher or nurse working damn near 10hrs a day, can't live in filth b/c she's not a bum bytch, cooking daily for the guy and I won't even mention kids. My bestie has been married for 7 years and I know for a fact she loves her husband but she tells me sometimes she barely sees him throughout the week. She say she jumped his ass on his way to the barbershop b/c she was pent up too. LMAO!
It's happened to me before too. I was working 10hr days 7 days a week as a middle school teacher, cooking/cleaning. We would play video games together and I would literally be asleep on the team. "OMG TOUCH THE PAYLOAD!!!!" Me: Zzzzzzz
Sex drive during summers off was pornographic. Sex drive during the school year was
. Long story short, he started pulling his weight around the house cooking and helping me clean. And shyt got a LOT better. He started noticing small shyt like folding laundry turned me into a stone cold freak and having the kitchen clean made me jump his ass.
Had ole boy lookin like
. Dude making homemade enchiladas!
3.) She could be a fukkin idiot. Some chicks base their lives off how they THINK life goes instead of making their own lives. Maybe she views sex as a chore in which case she shouldn't be with him or married to anybody at all.
4.) Not to blame the victim here but he could be contributing to this. If u disrespectful or irritating or emotionally negeligent or take me for granted or refuse to be romantic, then that can zap ur sex drive. There is no such thing as simping if ur in a relationship and both men and women should be showing that love and sweetness no matter how long you've been together. Once again, women ain't pornstars. We don't get magically wet at the thot of a dikk. Especially if it's attached to an a$$hole.
5.) Is she on birth control? I know this sounds crazy, but having a bunch of artificial hormones running thru ur system will fukk u UP as a female. I'm talkin mood swings, dryness, zapped sex drive, just feeling, highs and lows. All that. Get off BC.
5.) She could be cheating or he could be cheating and she "feels" it.
I know some people gon look at me like
but shyt happens when ur in a relationship with someone. Just real life shyt.
1.) Are their sex drives compatible? Believe it or not there are some women who have very high sex drives as well. One of my female friends divorced her husband partly b/c of this.
If he is with a chick with a low sex drive...lmao she still should be putting out. I was always told you should be having MORE sex when ur married than when u are single.
2.) What job does she work and does he help around the house? I know dudes got this idea that when u get with a girl u supposed to have a live-in maid/fukk toy
but reality is she's a human being. If she is working full-time (which she probably will be unless she is a bum bytch or ya'll are traditional), taking care of the kids, cooking AND keeping a clean place (unless she's once again a BUM bytch), then fukking u is just one more thing to do. The easy way to fix it is to...oh I dunno...help out.For instance, she is a teacher or nurse working damn near 10hrs a day, can't live in filth b/c she's not a bum bytch, cooking daily for the guy and I won't even mention kids. My bestie has been married for 7 years and I know for a fact she loves her husband but she tells me sometimes she barely sees him throughout the week. She say she jumped his ass on his way to the barbershop b/c she was pent up too. LMAO!
It's happened to me before too. I was working 10hr days 7 days a week as a middle school teacher, cooking/cleaning. We would play video games together and I would literally be asleep on the team. "OMG TOUCH THE PAYLOAD!!!!" Me: Zzzzzzz
Sex drive during summers off was pornographic. Sex drive during the school year was
. Long story short, he started pulling his weight around the house cooking and helping me clean. And shyt got a LOT better. He started noticing small shyt like folding laundry turned me into a stone cold freak and having the kitchen clean made me jump his ass. Had ole boy lookin like. Dude making homemade enchiladas!3.) She could be a fukkin idiot. Some chicks base their lives off how they THINK life goes instead of making their own lives. Maybe she views sex as a chore in which case she shouldn't be with him or married to anybody at all.
4.) Not to blame the victim here but he could be contributing to this. If u disrespectful or irritating or emotionally negeligent or take me for granted or refuse to be romantic, then that can zap ur sex drive. There is no such thing as simping if ur in a relationship and both men and women should be showing that love and sweetness no matter how long you've been together. Once again, women ain't pornstars. We don't get magically wet at the thot of a dikk. Especially if it's attached to an a$$hole.
5.) Is she on birth control? I know this sounds crazy, but having a bunch of artificial hormones running thru ur system will fukk u UP as a female. I'm talkin mood swings, dryness, zapped sex drive, just feeling
, highs and lows. All that. Get off BC. 5.) She could be cheating or he could be cheating and she "feels" it.
I know some people gon look at me like
but shyt happens when ur in a relationship with someone. Just real life shyt.
Rockstar Mom
PhatGurlSwag
@Booksnrain said it all. Too many factors to determine who's fault it is....
It's the truth breh...
I got reciepts the form of texts from the pastor's wife in atl I use to fukk...
She was laughing about all the excuses (lies) she gave her Husband about why she couldn't have sex...
"I told this clown I had a hot flash...and I'm no where near having menopause lol"
"He getting on my nerves leaving during lunch to come bother me here at the house...smh"
It was sad..I felt sorry for homie dude was working double shifts just so she could be a stay at home mom and build a new home....yet the whole time she was "sexting" me and disappearing on the weekends to meet up with me
We fail to realize as Men that WOMEN LIKE TO FUKM JUST AS MUCH AS WE DO..AND GET BORED BEING WITH THE SAME PERSON LIKE WE DO.....
#GMB #Bedecievedbrehs
pimpineasy
Superstar
Times like this I miss living in Jamaica
The fukkery
One fire stove caaaaaaan cook dinna
The fukkery
One fire stove caaaaaaan cook dinna
SleezyBigSlim
Banned
It's her fault.
Gully Bull
Love Sponge
Too open ended a question 
. How y'all can't have sex in the morning ?
. How y'all can't have sex in the morning ?