SheWantTheD
Veteran
Are we close-minded? Sexual abuse when it comes to women is far more accepted than men. There are people out here that believe that women cannot sexually abuse boys or men.Of course you don't, you're a man. You guys are extremely close minded when it comes to women and sex.
When people are sexually abused they rarely have normal views of sex. Some women learn over time but realize that since they've already had more partners than men approve of, they feel worthless like they did when they were abused and start to not care or believe that they don't have the right to change who they are. Kinda like how guys like @At30wecashout (no offense) say that if a woman gave it up easy to one man then she had to do it with all the men she gets with.
But I don't expect you to care about stuff like this. To men you're either a hoe or not and a hoe is never a victim.
Now to get to your post. I understand everything you're saying and how sexual abuse can affect victims. But at the end of the day, those are just excuses. I'm not saying it shouldn't be looked at, discussed and perceived as the root issue of these things but once you become an adult you are responsible and accountable for the things that you do. Unless you have some sort of mental deficiency, for the most part you know what's right and what's wrong.