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@Prynce listen, I been there, breh. Disassociate yourself from niceness and switch to a merit-based system in which even getting a smile will cost someone an arm and a leg.
You offer nothing more than you get in return, so you dont be out here spreading the love like a lil bytch
You need to be a walking black hole, breh. They dont reflect light, and they swallow everything within reach. Being nice usually means having empathy and an unreasonable willingness to self-sacrifice for folks who wouldnt loan you a dirty sock to cover up a bloody wound with.
Think more in terms of "you". What do you want and what would make you happy. If kowtowing to someone else doesnt further that goal, discard pleasantries. Move on. Family and friends get first crack at your benevolence, everyone else can eat a dikk and lick the balls. Only then are you free to instill your energy in those who deserve it, and not any person walking around so they dont "think you a re a bad guy." Newsflash, those people you hold the door open for dont give a fukk about you. They wont ask you about your day or listen to your story when you need an ear. Extend no courtesy to those who dont immediately enrich your life.
Granted, dont be an unrepentant a$$hole, but make your "niceness" be your reward to good people, not your default setting. Your niceness probably also keeps you from saying what you really want, because you and I came up to believe we have to be sensitive to other peoples plight before we address our own.
fukk that. You say what needs to be said and be ready to walk if people dont like it. If your lifes mission isnt to have a bountiful number of friends and people who adore you that arent related, switch your style up.
Want friends who are girls? Keep doing what you doing. Want girls to be attracted to you? Do something to spark emotions. Nice guys dont spark emotions without dumb luck. fukk luck.
You offer nothing more than you get in return, so you dont be out here spreading the love like a lil bytch
You need to be a walking black hole, breh. They dont reflect light, and they swallow everything within reach. Being nice usually means having empathy and an unreasonable willingness to self-sacrifice for folks who wouldnt loan you a dirty sock to cover up a bloody wound with.
Think more in terms of "you". What do you want and what would make you happy. If kowtowing to someone else doesnt further that goal, discard pleasantries. Move on. Family and friends get first crack at your benevolence, everyone else can eat a dikk and lick the balls. Only then are you free to instill your energy in those who deserve it, and not any person walking around so they dont "think you a re a bad guy." Newsflash, those people you hold the door open for dont give a fukk about you. They wont ask you about your day or listen to your story when you need an ear. Extend no courtesy to those who dont immediately enrich your life.
Granted, dont be an unrepentant a$$hole, but make your "niceness" be your reward to good people, not your default setting. Your niceness probably also keeps you from saying what you really want, because you and I came up to believe we have to be sensitive to other peoples plight before we address our own.
fukk that. You say what needs to be said and be ready to walk if people dont like it. If your lifes mission isnt to have a bountiful number of friends and people who adore you that arent related, switch your style up.
Want friends who are girls? Keep doing what you doing. Want girls to be attracted to you? Do something to spark emotions. Nice guys dont spark emotions without dumb luck. fukk luck.
This nice and sweet person I've been most of my life isn't working out
It really doesn't work
I think I'm ready to become a savage
Teach me how to abandon my nice guy ways brehs
I'm tired of finishing last
Birds don't want nice guys
most nice guys arent really nice guys...... theyre just weak / insecure / introverted / unconfident guys that want to mask their failings ........
where are these nice girls who aren't whores tho
Then fukk these women. People like OP I think find their way in their 30s when they learn how to be nice with some swag
JudgeJoeForilla
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You can have swag and be nice you might get girls but they will cheat on you.Then fukk these women. People like OP I think find their way in their 30s when they learn how to be nice with some swag
Is that you in the avi?
It's not me in the avi, lol. It's a girl from Instagram.
False. No good person truly wants rewards, they simply want to know why at best they get nothing for their niceness, at worst why people screw with them because of it. People like Prynce are nice by nature, but there is a point where you have to learn to project a willingness to take what you want over waiting for it to come to you.
What you said is patently false. Good people go bad all the fukking time because they were nice to a fault, and someone who didnt give a fukk left a lasting mark on them that changes their character for the worst. Alignment flips are apart of life. Me being a dikkhead today doesn't mean that me holding the door open for you and bidding you a good evening yesterday was not genuine, especially if you looked at me like a creep for having done so.
JudgeJoeForilla
Richest Broke Ni99a You'll Never Meet
Tell me about it these captain save a ho simp ass nikkas be pulling shyt out the ass. But it's the nikkas who cape who are often times virgins because their methods for getting p*ssy don't work and they're too dumb to realize it.I'm not any of that
You guys sure do like making assumptions
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