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thirdeye

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is there a market to help guys get chicks? i'm always helping my guy friends out for free :jbhmm:
i need another passive income hustle :jbhmm:
 

Illuminatos

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Oh no!

She already likes you.

Nothing ventured nothing gained.

It's been too long. She might not even be feeling me anymore. Plus if I get rejected from this chick I might off myself. :mjcry:

It all comes down to this. How much time are you thinking of sex or how to get it? If it's affecting your studies, you know what you need to do.

I mean I'm off no fap right now (:ahh:) so it's not as serious as it was about a month ago but I'm gonna see what's up when next semester starts. If it ends up another failure then I'll go all in during summer when I get a job and have some extra cash laying around. :manny:
 

GrindtooFilthy

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S:manny:Hard to have confidence when you've never tasted success before and the cycle continues.
this right here
Someone like you needs to hit on your inner circle of chick friends to talk about things in common. You don't NEED gift of gab.. you NEED to have confidence to be who you are... you"ll attract the types that are on your level for being you.
Easier said then done, most of my inner circle of chick friends are already taken
 

Crayola Coyote

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I don't buy into the whole idea of men ignoring women "on their level" and having expectations that are too high. From what I've seen there are plenty of cute, decent and nice looking women that are ignoring men in favor of hoping that top quality men will approach them eventually. All women aren't like this but let's not act as if this isn't happening sometimes. It's not just the guys that are the problem.

Keeping it real, a lot of these guys really aren't putting themselves out there enough and are not improving themselves enough to get women. The dudes that we see on youtube making videos are the perfect examples of this. I place them in a league of their own since some of them are so delusional it's ridiculous. Men who have sense understand the concept of looking in the mirror and working to improve on areas that they are lacking in. Some of these youtube dudes just like to complain more than actually putting in work to change.

Patience and luck are also factors. Depending on the individual it can be really difficult to find a woman to click with and who is a good match. That's easier for some men to find than others. Some dudes are patient enough to keep looking, some take whatever they can get and some just give up. I could have settled with women that were interested in me and made it easy on myself but I just thought they were average looking so I passed up on them. I kept being patient and found interest from women that I actually think are good looking so a lot of times it is about being patient and continuing to get out there. Every body isn't going to be able to walk outside and have nice looking women pursue them off first glance. Men with nice qualities can find attractive women if they want to put in the effort to do so.

Now this makes sense. Not like that "beta" and "alpha" male you are the weakest link fukkery you find on 4Cac and Cac Reddit
 

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The way people with mental illnesses view the world is VERY different from normal folks, leading to the delusional entitlement and exaggerated feelings of inadequacy that some dudes have.

A normal dude views women as simply people, with their own wants/desires, etc, and respects those feelings.

But dudes with personality disorders/mental illness view women as objects of pleasure that they need to control or "conquer". Women can pick up this vibe very early and distance themselves from them, just like they pick up the healthy vibe from normal dudes and pursue them.

Mentally ill people (sociopaths, narcissists, etc.) project their world view onto other dudes, because they can't imagine a man actually caring about a woman beyond her vagina. It's because THEY can't. You see that alot on this forum.

Even if they can learn how to manipulate women into having sex with them by using emotional and psychological triggers, it doesn't fix the underlying issue of not being able to truly care, or connect to others, so sex is at far as their relationship can go, even if they think they are capable of more.

As for why you didn't see it before the internet, where do you think people who don't fit in socially in real life go to express themselves? Exactly.
 

Dominicansbelit

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Just be good looking. Its so easy. Even in my darkest days I still had options because of my looks. Why would you be ugly, and then have the nerve to complain about not getting women?!?! Literally makes no sense to me.

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Ronnie Lott

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Just be good looking. Its so easy. Even in my darkest days I still had options because of my looks. Why would you be ugly, and then have the nerve to complain about not getting women?!?! Literally makes no sense to me.

You don't always need to be good looking to get bytches tho :what:
 
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