This is actually really sad. Most of you are using the "sex isn't that important" as an excuse when you're really just afraid of rejection and getting your feelings hurt. Sex isn't important but your computer flood with flicks?
Sex is very important. The ultimate stress reliever. As a Black Man in America, times are as stressful now then they've been in decades. You need a stress reliever.
You guys are wasting your prime years sitting on the bench watching life pass by. You're going to regret it when you're older.
I use to be timid and not to forward with women. I'm still not the holla all the time type. I pick my spots, do the online thing, get friends to put you on, holla at times etc. It's part-time job pull women. When I'm desperate or in a new area. I holler at 2 chicks a day. Or go to the mall and don't live without a number ever day. Change yourself.
I'm far from a great looking dude. I rarely get compliments from women. I have developed a nice little quiet/cocky/confident/sneaky vibe about myself. Women like it deep down, but won't tell to keep from blowing your head up more.
Where did my confidence come from? Getting PUZZY!!!
When you're getting puzzy on the regular there's no thirsty or nervousness in your game, maybe if the chick is a 8 and you're use to 5s and 6s, your game might be a little shaky and anxious. Women can tell when you're eating good out here. They get turned on by it. That's why 20% of the men are smashing 80% of the women. That's why I've get over 20 chicks a year if I'm single. I'm a pure whore when I'm single. And know I'm not smashing 9s and 10s. Most 5s, 6s, 7s. Usually when I get a 8, I consider dating her seriously.
Another thing you guys might be shooting out of your league as a pup. You need some easy kills. Big girls, single moms, girls with bad acne and crooked teeth. You don't have to parade her in the streets. Netflix and chill! Smashing them and them treating you well will help your swag and confidence. Then you can move from the 4s to the 5s and 6s. Some of you dudes are ugly, fat and broke. You got to start from the bottom G.
Another thing, keep yourself up. If you are ugly, like a 3 or 4. A nice haircut, white teeth, a crisp Polo, decent shoe and nice jeans will knock you up a notch. Like I say, I'm average AF, but I got them 360 spin, got my teeth straighten (needs whitening) I try to dress nice (not expensive) and I try to stay in shape somewhat.
And use whatever you got. You got muscles, take those baggy azz clothes off. You got a nice crib? Have a get together at house. That's what I always did. Nice car, you should be look around at every stoplight. "Hey, pullover right quick and let me talk to you" Works about 75% of the time if your reasonable. Dudes aint hollering that much no more so you being overgoing gives you points.
You fellas need to find some wolves to roll with. Not dudes that are smashing bad chicks, but run with the scavengers. Dudes smashing one notch up from Precious. Precious when it's late. Them boys will turn you into a wolf.
One life to live. Get money, fukk bytches.