So what do you do? Remain stoic and aloof?
I internalized it or confide in male friends. Which I feel isn’t healthy. So now I just don’t deal with those women anymore. Zero tolerance. Explain the problem and tell them the consequences of doing said problem again. They did it again I leave simple as that.
No explaining how you made me feel insignificant or hurt. It’s “you talking to me crazy or coming at me crazy. I don’t do that to you don’t do it to me. If you can’t do that or if you do that again we should stop talking”
Expressing what hurts my feelings or crying to a woman is not met with the understanding of I’m being vulnerable. It’s more along the lines of thinking you are sensitive and effeminate.
Now I’m married and in order to have a healthy marriage there has to be communication and compromise. I don’t tell everything but I speak what I feel is important to be heard. The rest I can talk to friends or in therapy.
THIS WAS HARD TO WRITE BECAUSE THE DAMN WEBPAGE KEEPS JUMPING AND REFRESHING. THE COLI fukkING UP.