relationships

  1. SheWantTheD

    If Ya Girl Goes Through Ya Phone, Does That Mean She Doesn't Trust You?

    Even if you haven't given her any reason to believe you are cheating? :mjpls:
  2. M

    Ladies of The Coli: What is your 1st reaction/internal thought when an ugly dude approaches you?

    :mjcry:A friend is doing some research
  3. SheWantTheD

    Sometimes I Wish I Was Average Looking, But Then I Remember...

    How women treat non-select men :francis: Men who women find most attractive get away with more sh!t, get treated better, probably less likely to get cheated on etc. If a man isn't deemed as more valuable than how a woman perceives herself, the man is many times perceived as a liability. Them...
  4. SirReginald

    I Don't Know Why Dudes Brag About How Many Girls They Smashed...................

    because don't you know that many chicks who are super promiscious have negative energy :francis: This is just common sense. Yes, I've had relationships that haven't involved sex (I'm a semi Virgin). However, just think of destructive relationships that some of us have with women, men, or...
  5. Indiglow Meta (R$G)

    SPIN: WHEN THE DNA test RESULTS COME IN (6 years later)....

    ...DAMN my g...just damn. Got this from my facebook Newsfeed, a popular club promoter/former dopeboy breh from a city I used to live in just got his DNA test results back after raising his son for 6 years. I wonder what the results will be!!!!! :ohhh: :jbhmm: :whoo: Let's discuss what we...
  6. SirReginald

    Most People Aren't Ready For Relationships Because They Aren't EMOTIONALLY Ready (Men & Women BOTH)

    I'm speaking from my perspective here, so just bear with me. Most of us in western culture are confused as to what are purpose is in the world. I mean we are confused and have internal problems. I've learned that some people bring their baggage into a relationship which is a no no from the...
  7. M

    Yo I just signed up for BlackPeopleMeet.com

    I'm deadass flabbergasted at all the pretty black women that live in my area that are looking for black men:ohhh: Where the hell these females be hiding at in the daytime?:sadcam: I expected it to be on some Tagged/POF shyt and did a search and got blown out my fukking socks
  8. Jimi Swagger

    When you date down this is what happens | Jill Scott Divorce

    Cliffs: Discusses Jill Scott first having a child by her employee and her current divorce to a man with 5 children from previous relationships - the husband was happy with the arrangement until things went sour and now he's complaining because she's not taking care of him and 5 children...
  9. M

    @The5thLetter I'm sorry babe.

    @The5thLetter I know what I did was wrong, baby I just wanna get back in your good graces you feel me? My heart is in your pocket bae. I just wanna cuddle up next to you with a glass of white wine with some K-Ci & Jojo playing in the background while you confide in me about your past pain and...
  10. SheWantTheD

    When Ya Girl Don't Like You Wearing Certain Clothes Appreciation/Unappreciation Thread :mjlol:

    For my muscular brehs out there, does ya girl not like you wearing clothes that show off ya body? My ex never liked me wearing this long-sleeve white scoop neck t shirt. Her facial expression every time I wore it told the whole story :mjlol: Shirt wasn't even tight or a muscle shirt, but it...
  11. Lamar Givens

    Which would you choose...

    You have to pick one. 1. Find out that your wife/husband of 10 years has been secretly sleeping with your best man/ maid of honor for your entire relationship. Or. 2. Over hear a conversation between your parents admitting they wish they never had you and giving birth to you was their worst...
  12. SheWantTheD

    Movies Where The Main Character "Justifiably" Steals Another Man's Girl

    There are no shortage of movies like this, but one example is Stomp the Yard. Played by Colombus Short, the main character was trying to get at Meagan Good's character throughout the whole movie.. even though she had a man. Her man told her he didn't like her hanging around him, and she...
  13. SheWantTheD

    When A Chick Is Choosing, How Quickly You Approaching?

    It could be anywhere and everywhere. A cute chick is giving you choosing signs, how quickly you approaching brehs? :jbhmm:
  14. M

    10 Great Reasons To Save Sex Until Marriage

    10 Good Reasons to Save Sex Until Marriage
  15. M

    Why Some Men Succeed at Love…and Others Don’t

    Thoughts? Opinions?:patrice:
  16. DatLBCGuy562

    Has Anyone Else Just Given Up And Lost Hope On Dating/Love?

    Yet another female got thrown into the bushes tonight. At this point I can almost predict the outcome with these women. They all start off nice, sweet, and promising that they're "different" than the other women out there. Then, like clockwork, their true selves emerge. When they get...
  17. M

    Why women love jerks, and why you should be a nice guy anyway

    By Duana C. Welch, Ph.D., author of Love Factually: 10 Proven Steps from I Wish to I Do, available now Your thoughts?:jbhmm:
  18. L

    DJ Akademiks Legendary HOH Rant

  19. xoxodede

    Would You Seriously Date and/or Marry A "Pick Me?"

    So, let me first visually show an example of a classic "Pick Me:" - typically overweight - typically just cute - typically low standards and lack of self-love/esteem. The Coli's Definition of a "Pick Me:" A Black woman or woman who takes up or supports Black men. The Real Definition or MY...
  20. m0rninggl0ry

    Why do men get vulnerable after she leaves?

    I never ask a man to be vulnerable with me right away when I first meet him. However, in our relationship if I sense some internal shyt is going on with him and he doesn't say anything and if it gets in his way, including our relationship, I leave. At that point, he tells me what's going on...
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