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  1. True Blue Moon

    G! True Hollywood Stories -- A Tale of L's and Triumphs [UPDATE: Uncle Jr from Jamie Foxx played me]

    What's good brehs. I started a 5-Day story series on Instagram recently trying to get my content up. It's called G! True Hollywood Stories. I'm going to be breaking down L's I've taken :wow: pivotal moments in my life :blessed: and maybe some heart break :to: Life is crazy and this is a fun...
  2. Quasi

    On being Big and Black, and the fear it inspires

    * There's a discussion to be had about how differently the world perceives big, Black individuals. We tend to strike a different, dangerous kind of fear in the hearts of others even as we simply move through space. Black physicality is seemingly only appreciated and adored when it is placed in...
  3. Aphrodite

    Something to motivate those in college to graduate....

    Morning!
  4. Pdiddy

    DC Young Fly Chick...Rider or Out for the $$$?

    He fell in love after only two weeks Then again,,,,she could really be down for him
  5. Quasi

    Dear Black Folks

    I had to share this letter after seeing the comments in this thread -- This fukked up brehs...this just set us back 200 yrs -- as well as the comments made by many Black people in the linked facebook video who reflexively felt an obligation to apologise to the world for something. This letter...
  6. M

    What is the line between romance & simping?

    I ABSOLUTELY LOVE buying girls flowers (red roses on first dates, petunias to her job after we've been dating for a while, white roses for special occasions i.e. birthdays, anniversaries, new job, etc.) I like buying girls gifts (not too expensive as I'm just an 18 year old college student, but...
  7. The BasedFather

    beef or chicken baby

    im never 1 4 beef i used 2 b about that goon life a long time ago but thats in the past whoadie sum niqqas on here that i never spoke 2 or acknowledge got beef with me @The Grendel @Rice'N Beckford @BigJohnsons @O.T.I.S. imagine that :lilblilblilb: spreading positivity got them...
  8. DrX

    Anybody else afraid to fall in love? I try guard my heart as much as I can but my armor is cracking

    Disclaimer: This may be my last thread for a while. I've said that million times but im obviously addicted to this site for some fukked up unspecified deep seeded emotional and psychologically reason. This site talk about alot of topics that fukk with my head and I need all the strength I can...
  9. Leviathan

    In love with a friend? Help me brehs, please..

    So there's this girl that I'm in college with, we've been best friends for almost 2 years now and we've sort of formed our own tight knit group of 4-5 friends. I knew I liked her from the first moment I talked to her, but now I really think I'm in love with this girl. I used to be a dog, trying...
  10. Giselle

    MenOfTheColi: How Can Women Let You Know They Want Your Attention WITHOUT Being Annoying?

    There was a thread on here not to long ago full of guys calling women annoying. One for texting first trying to invite him over, and another one for showing interest in him. Brehs, y'all notice how annoying women are when they want you? I also just watched an interview where a guy brought up...
  11. m0rninggl0ry

    Is It Selfish For A Man To Leave His Wife Because She Can't Have Kids?

    Is it a big deal if she can't have them? Is adoption an option? @wickedsm @stomachlines @Ask a Stupid Question @Wild self @ByAnyMeans @OfTheCross @Marti @Jayne @Dray5K @iBrowse @The Wave @Malt-O-Meal @SirBiatch @Marco Andretti @Inspect Her Deck @hex @LeeDoubleLee @Milk N Cookies @NYC_Warrior
  12. Uitomy

    You ever just lose yourself in sex sometimes?

    Like, to the point its almost like you got an alter ego or some shyt? Like even when you know you're going to smash when you do it you be so into it its like you forget what time is and who you really supposed to be? To the point after it over you be like:dwillhuh: did I just do all that? should...
  13. GoldCoastSaint

    Ok ladies we're getting close to Valentine Selection Deadline. Choose wisely, but quickly...

    Feb.14 is fast approaching. Its time to choose. Time to get him feeling good about himself. Time to get him emotional. Time to get a good argument going so y'all can get a good make-up happening. Trust, this is how you secure a good dependable Vday date. Might even get a bf if thats what...
  14. DrX

    I don't care what no man say, life is empty without a soulmate

    Not a jumpoff or a thot, but a soulmate. A companion and a female best friend. I think about what it would be like to have a female friend that truly love you for you. They don't care about about the superficial shyt. Y'all got each other back no matter what and y'all have a spiritual...
  15. ™BlackPearl The Empress™

    BlackPearl POTY 2017: Caring, Dependable Reps, American & Boobs

    I, BlackPearl, appreciate you. While all the other contestants feel owed the title of 'Poster of the Year" I take a different approach. I understand that I need to earn that title and I am here to prove my commitment to getting it. First and foremost, I adore thecoli.com. It is may favorite...
  16. DrX

    I got a confession to make, I love @Blackpearl and want 2 get married to her in the future

    Ive been doing some thinking during my brief stint in the purgatory that is known as the real world . That place is scary, Going cold turkey from the coli was hard, During one of my withdraws the only thing I could think about was my pearl. Thinking about caressing her silky long and beautiful...
  17. Pdiddy

    Super Simp or the Ideal Husband?

    :sas2: She already has four children(He wants to show her boys how to be a man)...His career has started to blossom. Did he make the best move? Gives friendzone guys hope I guess Proposed marriage before he even got a kiss:lolbron:
  18. SheWantTheD

    Hypermasculinity, Insecurity, And Fear Of Getting Hurt In Black Men/Boys - Dude Dropping Dimes!

    Give this video a listen, dude droppin' dimes! I may post cliff notes later.
  19. DrX

    any other men become detached to sex? Anybody else asexual? did capitalism kill intimacy ?

    I'm detached from sex...I don't get sexual urges anymore hardly, unless its some out the box creative shyt. Like a chick tied up with a ball gag or something out of the ordinary. I don't watch porn, even when I try I feel nothing...I just turn it off and go to bed, sometimes I just watch out of...
  20. DrX

    A lack of love, combined with loneliness can destroy one's humanity, intimacy is over sex

    Loneliness can destroy a person humanity and out look on life. Because if you're isolated in a remote location with no intimacy.. it'll turn you into a monster. It'll turn u in a 'savage' as they say. everybody is entitled to love and intimacy. No person should experience a lonley existence. I...
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