"You find him Attractive..but his NICENESS...BORES YOU"- Female Spoken Word artist
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PlainSight
Anon
I'm sick of this nice guy shyt to be honest.
Nice guys are boring. You know why they're boring? Because often, niceness is all they bring to the table when you deep it. I'd go as far as to say that if there's anything a woman doesn't like about a nice guy, it's certainly not his niceness - that's probably one of the things she actually likes about that guy.
What exactly is the nice guy's character? Is he intelligent? Witty? Charismatic? Passionate? Is there anything else about that guy that is remotely interesting? Is he confident? What does he consider his purpose?
This is one of the problems I find. Women are searching for a multidimensional man in a sea of 1-dimensional men. It's either black or white (not literally). The bad boy persona or the average good guy.
I used to be on that nice guy shyt - when I was like 20-21. Then I grew up and stopped being a fukking prick and realized I actually have a personality and a character that I need to cultivate. A lot of these nice guys instead of blaming women's "choices" could just do that instead of bemoaning how their niceness is stopping them succeeding with "bytches who only wanna date thugs" when it's the fact that their fukking boring and feel entitled to p*ssy because they're nice
Another thing. A lot of dudes overdo the niceness and end up not knowing what they want and just appeasing others. That's not particularly very attractive either. Women will think you are weak and lack a spine. I've been very guilty of that in the past too so I know by experience.
Nice guys are boring. You know why they're boring? Because often, niceness is all they bring to the table when you deep it. I'd go as far as to say that if there's anything a woman doesn't like about a nice guy, it's certainly not his niceness - that's probably one of the things she actually likes about that guy.
What exactly is the nice guy's character? Is he intelligent? Witty? Charismatic? Passionate? Is there anything else about that guy that is remotely interesting? Is he confident? What does he consider his purpose?
This is one of the problems I find. Women are searching for a multidimensional man in a sea of 1-dimensional men. It's either black or white (not literally). The bad boy persona or the average good guy.
I used to be on that nice guy shyt - when I was like 20-21. Then I grew up and stopped being a fukking prick and realized I actually have a personality and a character that I need to cultivate. A lot of these nice guys instead of blaming women's "choices" could just do that instead of bemoaning how their niceness is stopping them succeeding with "bytches who only wanna date thugs" when it's the fact that their fukking boring and feel entitled to p*ssy because they're nice
Another thing. A lot of dudes overdo the niceness and end up not knowing what they want and just appeasing others. That's not particularly very attractive either. Women will think you are weak and lack a spine. I've been very guilty of that in the past too so I know by experience.
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Some Dudes be acting like that too
Will chase a bytch that aint feeling him but think the 1 bytch in the world who actually like him is wack
Side note she need to chill with the makeup
Will chase a bytch that aint feeling him but think the 1 bytch in the world who actually like him is wack
Side note she need to chill with the makeup
StickStickly
Superstar
i've never liked thugs; most women want smart, confident normal men. thugs strike me as childlikeAll women want is no good thugs
Software
RIP Future Gohan
bytch stop lying as soon as you figure out you can walk all over that nikka you gonna be resenting himI like nice guys. I find them the most attractive
jwonder
Superstar
Fixed
excessive niceness is boring and exposes the insecurities in American women.
If a woman doesn't have the self-love to accept herself unconditionally. How can she be comfortable when another person does?
That yearning to be accepted by those who don't want us is a universal human struggle. Some people just can't get past It.
Trapperman Dave
Basil Fawty
That's just a refrence but that's whats up maturity attracts you
jwonder
Superstar
American men at least are responsible for how American act.
StickStickly
Superstar
most men would sleep with a porn star, but thecoli says that doesn't men do NOT like them as people or want to be with them. they're just sex toys. or do you think differently?
I Lord Justice
All Star
I'm sick of this nice guy shyt to be honest.
Nice guys are boring. You know why they're boring? Because often, niceness is all they bring to the table when you deep it. I'd go as far as to say that if there's anything a woman doesn't like about a nice guy, it's certainly not his niceness - that's probably one of the things she actually likes about that guy.
What exactly is the nice guy's character? Is he intelligent? Witty? Charismatic? Passionate? Is there anything else about that guy that is remotely interesting? Is he confident? What does he consider his purpose?
This is one of the problems I find. Women are searching for a multidimensional man in a sea of 1-dimensional men. It's either black or white (not literally). The bad boy persona or the average good guy.
I used to be on that nice guy shyt - when I was like 20-21. Then I grew up and stopped being a fukking prick and realized I actually have a personality and a character that I need to cultivate. A lot of these nice guys instead of blaming women's "choices" could just do that instead of bemoaning how their niceness is stopping them succeeding with "bytches who only wanna date thugs" when it's the fact that their fukking boring and feel entitled to p*ssy because they're nice
Another thing. A lot of dudes overdo the niceness and end up not knowing what they want and just appeasing others. That's not particularly very attractive either. Women will think you are weak and lack a spine. I've been very guilty of that in the past too so I know by experience.
They will address none of this....
StickStickly
Superstar
thugs have no substance. plus i can't stand how they love destroying people and their community. they're idiots. i can't be around people like that for long periods of time without feeling extreme frustration. when i was younger my older brother tried that shyt and it almost destroyed our family. he was smart and headed places but did that to fit in. now that he's older he's grown out of it.
anyway one of my first crushes was on a classmate who said "pardon?" instead of "what?" "or "huh?" when he didn't hear what was said. he was short and skinny, but facially attractive. i wasn't the only girl in the school with a crush on him either.
StickStickly
Superstar
exactly, and sometimes there's no other explanation besides no "spark", which is the reason why everyone in the world doesn't fall in love with one another. just because you have x qualities doesn't mean you are right for one another.
I enjoyed this poem more than I enjoyed any of K-Rino's albums.
And she's very pretty.
Lesson: Don't be a nice guy. Don't be emotionally engaged.
And she's very pretty.
Lesson: Don't be a nice guy. Don't be emotionally engaged.