Why successful black men are a$$holes

[Yup]

We all do. nikkas can't even relish brehs. They trying to steal our God damn relishments.

I won't be relish shamed.

Pffff...dating other races is an accomplishment?

 

[Big Boss]

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

I don't have a problem with a Black woman doing what she pleases, so long as she's not throwing Black men or the Black community under the bus. I've said that a million times.

You mean how you throw BW under the bus while doing what you please?

 

[Opus]

Pffff...dating other races is an accomplishment?

For some people, sure.

But why do you keep going back to that?

There's a whole 90% of educated brehs that marry which end up with Brehettes

The real issue is the dudes not marrying the women complaining.

 

[mamba]

I disagree...I belive black women want to see wealthy black men create wealthy black families moreso. That is why black women like to see the obama family, the smiths, etc...

Black women can help to create those families by building with Black men, not hoping those who've already made it upgrade them.

 

[mamba]

You mean how you throw BW under the bus while doing what you please?

Nope. I don't throw Black women under the bus.

 

[mamba]

You jacked this idea from this broad

I like how she tries to introduce the "maturity" piece. She has her fun, but gets frustrated when men in her age group don't want to settle down with her as she ages.

Men can have as much fun as they want. We don't have to live our lives according to the lives and biological clocks of women. Some of these chicks are out of their minds.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Nope. I don't throw Black women under the bus.

Stop lying.

 

[kayslay]

Lol so a community that is struggling, black women should be happy that a black man is sharing his wealth with a non-Black woman? Are you serious?

Girl these Mfs are CRAZY.
I guess if Oprah married and had kids with a white man that something to rejoice in?
Oh i forgot its only accepted when Black men destroy wealth, and power in the Black community. FOH.
These same dudes fail to see why they continue to have a hard time reaching success.
you destroy any bit of power they receive then cry about lack of support from the Black community and the evil White man holding them back.

 

[kayslay]

Those Black women can put in the hard work and build with other Black men who want to build, not wait for some Black Knight to sprinkle his wealth and upgrade her situation.

You and the few other dudes contradict yourselves ALOT!

 

[mamba]

Stop lying.

 

[kayslay]

I like how she tries to introduce the "maturity" piece. She has her fun, but gets frustrated when men in her age group don't want to settle down with her as she ages.

Men can have as much fun as they want. We don't have to live our lives according to the lives and biological clocks of women. Some of these chicks are out of their minds.

I thought women should look for Black men who want to build?
You think Black men are Settling when they date women their age?

 

[mamba]

I thought women should look for Black men who want to build?
You think Black men are Settling when they date women their age?

If you want to build, find a man in your early 20s like other women in most cultures do. Problem is most Black women want to have their fun and then settle down on their own schedule in their 30s. That's not how it works. If a successful man makes it to 30 and isn't married, playing the field goes into overdrive because he has more money and begins to date women in their 20s, 30s and early 40s, in some cases.

You have to be an awesome woman to get him to settle down. That's just the nature of the dating game, brehette.

 

[kayslay]

If you want to build, find a man in your early 20s like other women in most cultures do. Problem is most Black women want to have their fun and then settle down on their own schedule in their 30s. That's not how it works. If a successful man makes it to 30 and isn't married, playing the field goes into overdrive because he has more money and begins to date women in their 20s, 30s and early 40s, in some cases.

You have to be an awesome woman to get him to settle down. That's just the nature of the dating game, brehette.

That's BS Im in my "early " 20s and dudes my age dont want to build a damn thing they want to fukk as many women as possible.
i know that, and you know it too!
You BSing nobody having fun doing dikks, BW are trying to solidify their future just in case that Black Knight don't show up.
It seems to me like BM are trying to out do Black women more so than build with them.
The way yall talk about BW and frame the conversation like ALL unmarried/Uninvolved Black women over 30 are ex Hoes is not only dishonest, but disrespectful.
You have SEVERAL men in this VERY thread saying how they pass over quality BW of ALL ages, for no good reason.
Most women i know are Awesome, and Im not just saying that because i know them.
out of my entire family/friends i only know 4 women that really aint shyt at their core.
Framing the conversation as YOU have to convince him to marry you is BS and you know it!
You can be the PERFECT women and then some, it doesnt matter.
Men have always had the power to decide when to get married. You even said it yourself that MOST men simple DONT want to!

 

[Opus]

If you want to build, find a man in your early 20s like other women in most cultures do. Problem is most Black women want to have their fun and then settle down on their own schedule in their 30s. That's not how it works. If a successful man makes it to 30 and isn't married, playing the field goes into overdrive because he has more money and begins to date women in their 20s, 30s and early 40s, in some cases.

You have to be an awesome woman to get him to settle down. That's just the nature of the dating game, brehette.

Seriously. They keep blaming cacs. It's the young jawns that have their shyt together that are making it hard for brehettes.