Why do women automatically blame bad sex on men?

[MoonGoddess]

Nothing crazy huh?

Getting smashed in the bathroom at Chili's is normal sexual behavior

No wonder these chicks like watching Olivia Pope get f#cked in broom closets on Scandal

Peace

Exhibitit A. Then wanna talk about women are boring when it comes to sex. Some guys just dont want to acknowledge their "short" comings
You obviously havent been on the internet long enough if you think thats crazy. Doing it in a car can be considered public.
I dont watch tv so what olivia pope does has no bearings on me.

 

[mcdivit85]

lol, this is very true. most woman also don't know how to turn on a man. they think the simple fact that they are present must make you want to sleep with them. and when they try to seduce you it's often horribly awkward.

i think a lot of it has to do with the fact that society hardwired certain gender roles into their brain. even most feminists have never critically reflected on how male gender roles influence their perception of men. men are supposed to be always horny and responsible for everything that has to do with sex: they are the ones who are supposed to want it, they have to initiate it, and they are the ones who have to perform. the woman is supposed to be passive in all these situations. if you don't initiate sex, a woman will feel that she must be horribly ugly, because if she wasn't you would want to sleep with her. the only other possibility that will cross her mind is that you are gay.

on top of that, a lot of them don't even know what they can do with their p*ssy. i had this weird conversation with an ex once, who said she wouldn't mind if i got a blowjob by another girl, because she knew how good her bj skills were and that other woman couldn't compete. but me sleeping with another woman would bother her, because the other girl might have a p*ssy that was build better than hers, and there was nothing she could do about it

Yea, most chicks are pretty lame when it comes to men to be quite honest. Most don't know how to seduce a man....even the man they're in a relationship with. They think because they have sex that that alone means she's doing a good job of enticing him. When he's just busting a nut because that's his chick. But if she needed to take him from 0 to 10 on her own action, then they would be stuck at 0 all night.

And when they do, like you said, it can be very awkward. As you said, society has women thinking a certain way about men and their sexuality. So, when they try to take matters into their own hands in the bedroom, many times they miss the mark. Doesn't mean that sex doesn't happen. It just means that what they thought would work to turn him on was actually not what worked.

Peace

 

[mcdivit85]

Well if you had bad sex you would blame it on the woman so vice versa.

Or we can see it like this...... YALL always orgasm while women don't. Can you recall how many times you didn't bust men? Sex isn't always pleasurable for women. Why do you think a married man deals with a woman not wanting to have sex with him. If it was mind blowing do you think she would deny him?

The same can be said for married men.

I can actually remember several times where I had sex and had to lie about the orgasm, so as to not hurt feelings. Yes, ladies, some men to have to lie about busting a nut to protect your feelings about being wack in bed.

Again, most women are lame when it comes to men and sex.

The idea that all women have to do is have a vagina for a man to get pleasure from sex is a manufactured lie spread by various media sources over and over.

Peace

 

[mcdivit85]

Exhibitit A. Then wanna talk about women are boring when it comes to sex. Some guys just dont want to acknowledge their "short" comings
You obviously havent been on the internet long enough if you think thats crazy. Doing it in a car can be considered public.
I dont watch tv so what olivia pope does has no bearings on me.

Having public sex does not mean having good or exciting sex. That's novelty....not skill.

If you can't turn your man on in your own bed in the privacy of your home, then public sex is simply a diversion and a futile attempt at "spicing things up."

Peace

 

[Rawtid]

The majority of women are not good in bed. Most of these females are just lying there, not moving their pelvis, not contracting and pulsating their p*ssy, not doing anything else either, I find it funny how women are always gauging how good a man is, but think that all they're supposed to do is get naked and lay there and that's enough. This is why so many married men lose interest and then their woman starts wondering what the problem is, its not the he has erectile dysfunction, its that you never turned him on. You expect a guy who has been looking at the same naked woman for years to get excited for no reason with no significant stimulation? I hate when prudish women who don't even suck dikk blame a dead sex life on the man.

What do you do to encourage her to be better in bed? if you LET a bytch just lay there during sex then that's on you. You may stumble on a freak every now and then but for the most part women are shy when it comes to sex and need to be encouraged. A good portion of the men that women have sex with don't give a damn if she cums or is enjoying herself and if she gets that vibe what's her motivation to be a better lover?

 

[Rawtid]

The same can be said for married men.

I can actually remember several times where I had sex and had to lie about the orgasm, so as to not hurt feelings. Yes, ladies, some men to have to lie about busting a nut to protect your feelings about being wack in bed.

Again, most women are lame when it comes to men and sex.

The idea that all women have to do is have a vagina for a man to get pleasure from sex is a manufactured lie spread by various media sources over and over.

Peace

Why did you allow the sex to be so bad that you had to lie about nutting? Like seriously!

 

[karim]

What do you do to encourage her to be better in bed? if you LET a bytch just lay there during sex then that's on you. You may stumble on a freak every now and then but for the most part women are shy when it comes to sex and need to be encouraged. A good portion of the men that women have sex with don't give a damn if she cums or is enjoying herself and if she gets that vibe what's her motivation to be a better lover?

lol, you're a woman so i guess you never tried telling your chick that she is bad at something.

 

[myBlackisGodly]

The more a woman is feelin u the more she'll do in bed.

I noticed that with wifey....when she feeling good abt us the sex is amazing but if I do some dumb shyt & we have sex afterwards it ain't the same. She dry up faster..caught her drifting off one time...watching tv n shyt

The p*ssy tells you how she really feelin

 

[Taadow]

Yea, most chicks are pretty lame when it comes to men to be quite honest. Most don't know how to seduce a man....even the man they're in a relationship with. They think because they have sex that that alone means she's doing a good job of enticing him. When he's just busting a nut because that's his chick. But if she needed to take him from 0 to 10 on her own action, then they would be stuck at 0 all night.

And when they do, like you said, it can be very awkward. As you said, society has women thinking a certain way about men and their sexuality. So, when they try to take matters into their own hands in the bedroom, many times they miss the mark. Doesn't mean that sex doesn't happen. It just means that what they thought would work to turn him on was actually not what worked.

Peace

This is some real talk.

Dig, ladies - just because he came, that doesn't mean YOU made him cum. Knowledge.

 

[MoonGoddess]

Having public sex does not mean having good or exciting sex. That's novelty....not skill.

If you can't turn your man on in your own bed in the privacy of your home, then public sex is simply a diversion and a futile attempt at "spicing things up."

Peace

All im saying is a lot of guys talk a big game. They say they want a girl who is open minded but act like a prude when you wanna try something different. Whether it's the on a bed, in the shower, the kitchen, or airport parking lot sex is sex. Also whats wrong with wanting to spice things up? Sometimes the thrill of where your at gets you off more than the sex. I dont need penetration to cum, its mostly mental for me.
Anyway when it comes to topics like this most guys and women will never agree. I do whats necessary to make the guy im with orgasm. I always ask what he likes and how he feels. My guy now according to him came probably 2 or 3 times from head before we met. I make him cum everytime no matter how long it takes how much my jaw gets sore or my mouth gets dry. When it comes to pleasing my man, i dont get tired.
He'll tell you himself.

 

[hypo666]

This is why those who go to thailand and sample ladyboys as well as women often say sex with ladyboys is better because they know instinctively how to please a man.They are far dirtier than women in bed and men like dirty sex. Just need to get past the dikk and balls.

 

[Diondon]

Im like all that twerking and turning up you do in the club
Do the same when some dikk up in ya

 

[onelastdeath]

Care about a woman getting hers brehs.

I learned a minute ago that 95% of women are in bed, because so are 95% of nikkas. But when you have those who are experienced, it ruins it to have a woman just lie there. Which is why I don't allow them too. If you're not my girl. Chances are you're getting flat out destroyed

I don't make love to women I don't love.

If she's bad in bed, you hit her and don't call her. Leave it at that. Hopefully the silence of her phones ringer will help her get the memo.

Work ON YOUR PIPE GAME. And boring sex is almost impossible. You have to train them, and direct them while you're in it.

 

[mcdivit85]

All im saying is a lot of guys talk a big game. They say they want a girl who is open minded but act like a prude when you wanna try something different. Whether it's the on a bed, in the shower, the kitchen, or airport parking lot sex is sex. Also whats wrong with wanting to spice things up? Sometimes the thrill of where your at gets you off more than the sex. I dont need penetration to cum, its mostly mental for me.
Anyway when it comes to topics like this most guys and women will never agree. I do whats necessary to make the guy im with orgasm. I always ask what he likes and how he feels. My guy now according to him came probably 2 or 3 times from head before we met. I make him cum everytime no matter how long it takes how much my jaw gets sore or my mouth gets dry. When it comes to pleasing my man, i dont get tired.
He'll tell you himself.

 

[meth68]

Never had a female complain had several brag and got around some defenses with friends due to it

Side note... wouldn't care if they complained either