Why do men find it odd when a man enjoys female company?

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We are Groot...

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Smh :pachaha:
 

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You can have female friends but they never gonna be in yo inner circle or whatever
I usually reserve friendship for females im not trying to smash otherwise I keep them on an acquaintance only level
 

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Its this misogynistic attitude that women are only good for sex, and that supposedly prohibits a man from actually being able to have a legitimate friendship with a woman. But thats bullshyt. I've had fiends who were women, and I see men and women hanging out all the time just as friends. Any well adjusted dude should have the ability to form a genuine friendship with a women.
I agree with this, but... I don't generally go out of my way to hang out one-on-one with women that I'm not attracted to. And I suspect that most men are the same way.
 

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with my 2 male friends, one of them tried to date me but it wasnt mutual so he was cool with just being friends and actually enjoyed my company.

:russ: That nikka aint cool with "just being friends", he's laying in wait.

lol @ those dudes that sat at a table full of females during lunch, they all turned out to be gay after graduation. Who would have figured that?

:lolbron: That's true as fukk. ALL of them nikkaz at the lunch table full of broads turned out to be gay at much school too. I remember one of them nikkaz got caught in school with some gay porn magazine by one of our teachers, who went straight :bryan:at his ass too.

u are aware that men marry women right ? Or do you think they marry the woman just to fukk ? :mjlol:

:mjcry: Condom breakage is the no.1 cause of marriage.

They pick up female tendencies as well, look at all the nikkas in this thread resorting to shaming tactics because they'd rather sit around bytching and gossiping with their coven than talk some real shyt and banter with the squad. :scust:

Exactly, these nikkaz in here like, "Yeah, I fukk bytches so much that I just like hanging out with bytches":yeshrug:

Black men are so socially backwards you guys are on some Taliban level of development.

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Have you ever listened to the Tom Joyner Morning Show? :usure:

That shyt's for women.

Real nikkaz listen to sports, news, or music
:jbhmm: didn't Pac say he enjoyed a female's company in a couple of interviews.
:pachaha: Yeah, but Pac was fukkkin' his female friends

Best thing is never had to fukk em, just talk to em about the bs there bf was doing.

:what: And this shyt here is the problem.

:why: Why the fukk are you talking to another man's girl about that man?

That's why nikkaz think that the dudes with female friends are gay or soft.

90% of women are talking about their man all the time.

:mindblown:What kind of dude is getting involved in people's relationship drama
 

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because when you think of women as sex objects instead of people it's hard for them to understand how someone could be around them without trying to have sex with them. If they weren't sexist pigs, they would realize that women are people and have personalities and people like their personalities (including men) and want to be friends with them.
 

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I don't attribute it to myself. I assume that is how men are. I don't think men want to be friends with women. They can be cool but they are always thinking something else.

I don't think friendly is a word that most people would use to describe me. :skip:


women do the same thing, If a really attractive model looking male, with a good personality only wanted to just be friends with you, you wouldn't really do it.

In fact most semi-attractive women in this position take it as rejection. thus tend to not want to talk to the dude anymore, or actually have some weird animosity there.

I've seen it first hand. most people don't talk about the women in the reverse situation because it's a rare occurrence that the male is higher value than the female.
 

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women do the same thing, If a really attractive model looking male, with a good personality only wanted to just be friends with you, you wouldn't really do it.

In fact most semi-attractive women in this position take it as rejection. thus tend to not want to talk to the dude anymore, or actually have some weird animosity there.

I've seen it first hand. most people don't talk about the women in the reverse situation because it's a rare occurrence that the male is higher value than the female.

Truth. Women don't want to be friends with men they are 100% attracted to. I met my last gf through a group of associates and she told me after we got official, that she was never interested in being my friend.

I've always said that girls that are barely f**kable make the best female friends. Not so unattractive that she more than likely wants to get with you, but not attractive enough that you would ever have a burning desire to get with her. If y'all mess around and get drunk one night and it pops off, it's whatevs. If you've kept it a buck with her, she already knows you ain't feeling her like that and it was just an episode.
 

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:russ: That nikka aint cool with "just being friends", he's laying in wait.



:lolbron: That's true as fukk. ALL of them nikkaz at the lunch table full of broads turned out to be gay at much school too. I remember one of them nikkaz got caught in school with some gay porn magazine by one of our teachers, who went straight :bryan:at his ass too.



:mjcry: Condom breakage is the no.1 cause of marriage.



Exactly, these nikkaz in here like, "Yeah, I fukk bytches so much that I just like hanging out with bytches":yeshrug:



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That shyt's for women.

Real nikkaz listen to sports, news, or music

:pachaha: Yeah, but Pac was fukkkin' his female friends



:what: And this shyt here is the problem.

:why: Why the fukk are you talking to another man's girl about that man?

That's why nikkaz think that the dudes with female friends are gay or soft.

90% of women are talking about their man all the time.

:mindblown:What kind of dude is getting involved in people's relationship drama
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:russ: That nikka aint cool with "just being friends", he's laying in wait.



:lolbron: That's true as fukk. ALL of them nikkaz at the lunch table full of broads turned out to be gay at much school too. I remember one of them nikkaz got caught in school with some gay porn magazine by one of our teachers, who went straight :bryan:at his ass too.



:mjcry: Condom breakage is the no.1 cause of marriage.



Exactly, these nikkaz in here like, "Yeah, I fukk bytches so much that I just like hanging out with bytches":yeshrug:



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That shyt's for women.

Real nikkaz listen to sports, news, or music

:pachaha: Yeah, but Pac was fukkkin' his female friends



:what: And this shyt here is the problem.

:why: Why the fukk are you talking to another man's girl about that man?

That's why nikkaz think that the dudes with female friends are gay or soft.

90% of women are talking about their man all the time.

:mindblown:What kind of dude is getting involved in people's relationship drama


My nikka how hard is it to say "word" ,"wow" , "Thats crazy yo"

That all you got to say , for free food, free gifts, and all around somebody looking out for you.

You nikkas must be dusty. Pass on the p*ssy once in a while. It won't hurt you.
 

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i do....if she have a nice personality, why not?
 

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I've never met a man who just enjoyed my company without any sexual or romantic thoughts attached.

Every single last one eventually confessed something. The last one threw me for a loop because I actually thought we friends. Everybody else might have been on some other stuff, but not my boy. I had no idea that he had a crush on me since high school. I was shocked. :wtf:

Men do not want to be friends with me. They might be friendly but they are thinking something else.


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*does not go throughed't the beta max sized friend door.
 

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i have female friends, we chill but id still fuk them, but im not chasing

a female friend did lick my dikk when we were drunk tho:mjlol:
 
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