What did I do wrong? spent 150 dollar on a date to impress and court her, she is being distant

[timeless]

If she don't start off with an apology fukk all that.

That's why you bring it to her attention. A lot of people feel that they aren't obligated to apologize because they don't care or don't see what they did wrong. If she still doesn't apologize, then there's no need to feel salty about a thing as you now know you were messing with someone who really dgaf.

Op is obviously invested so its best he finds some closure so he don't harbor resentment for someone like that. She wouldn't be worth it in that case.

 

[fukkyalifestyle]

This is why you don't spend 150 on the first date, she gotta earn every penny. you live and you learn tho, if you do this again on a first date tho . Maybe, maybe do this on the 3rd date if you didn't get in them drawls yet.

 

[FeloniousMonk]

Should have done what my tricking homie does-

Ask what bill she need paid and is it cool to fukk...

Shyt worked 50% of the time

 

[Malik1time]

Took you for your shyt then pulled an uncle Charles on you B

See ya at the crossroads... You'll learn and be aight

 

[AquaCityBoy]

I am trying not to be salty but I really can't help but be disappointed. Even paid for her uber to come pick her up back and forth.

Treated her to a proper date. I did everything a gentleman...like damn at least have the decency to not wait two days to answer my did you get home safely text. I feel like a damn sucka right now.

Hey, idiot. She doesn't like you. Take your and keep it moving.

 

[southern.girl]

How did she treat you before the date?


Two days to answer a simple "Did you get home text?"

Oh heck no.

Million dollar question, right there.

 

[GSR]

Take solace in the fact that she's most likely gonna be into a dude who's gonna treat her like shyt, when she could've had a gentlemen who'd treat her right. the same thing that happened to you will happen to her regularly and she's gonna go thru this multiple times and e eventually her stupidass is gonna be asking God "why?"


fukk that stupid bytch. take pride in who you are and move on to the next one.

 

[J Money]

Lmao son you spent 150 for her to eat good that night, paid for her cab which she probably redirected to a real nikkas house who then proceeded to fukk her all night and laugh at you

And she couldn't even be bothered to tell you she got there fine

 

[Logic Reigns Supreme]

Dave & Buster's does half priced drinks on Wednesday nights.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I am trying not to be salty but I really can't help but be disappointed. Even paid for her uber to come pick her up back and forth.

Treated her to a proper date. I did everything a gentleman...like damn at least have the decency to not wait two days to answer my did you get home safely text. I feel like a damn sucka right now.

Eh... some dates go well, some don't. Don't take it personally, breh ya'll probably just weren't compatible.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I chased and courted her hard. We met through a mutual friend. I did my best to impress her to secure the date.

That's where you went wrong. She should be impressed by you, without you trying to impress her.

Read some books and learn some shyt. Women love (and I mean love) smart men.

Teach a broad something, she'll follow you for life.

 

[Jack Michaelson]

Hold this L

 

[southern.girl]

No, just seperate..spent 150 on the date...dinner, drinks and paid for this boat ride on the river.

On a brighter note, that sounds like a lovely date. One day, you'll find a chick that appreciates it.

Also, I'm sure you missed plenty signs that she was not interested. I say this because there's no way that a chick would be callous enough to ignore your follow up text for two days when you took her on a nice date. Even if she disliked you, she would still respond as a courtesy.

You should work on your self awareness and understanding the body language & signals of others. A higher awareness level may have allowed you to curve her before the date, due to her lack of interest. No shade though.

 

[etrofllenrod504]

Smh the when dudes like this who end becoming successful have they shyt together and become sharks, women wonder why? Because when a nikka was trying to do things the "so called right way" they get gamed by undeserving females. We all have to take L to bounce back with a vengeance.

 

[lespaulultra3]

Dam you could have bought a used Xbox one with that $150.