talk me out of smashin a co-worker

[Wildin]

backstory, I'm just gettin out of a relationship that went left. it's fine I'm over it, but it coincides where I've been workin a lot of hours and dealing with other personal shyt, no fap,etc so I haven't been meeting nobody or goin out these past couple weeks and this co-worker is cute, not super special or anything but I know it's an easy layup. We've been gettin closer and I know that's wrong, I've dated a chick I worked with and it went bad so I know damn well I shouldn't even be entertaining this.

I need to think about other shyt, how do y'all stop thinkin about it. I can't go down that road

Don't think you can get it until she says you can have it or you're about to put the tip in.

 

[Peak]

Not advisable.

 

[Edub]

backstory, I'm just gettin out of a relationship that went left. it's fine I'm over it, but it coincides where I've been workin a lot of hours and dealing with other personal shyt, no fap,etc so I haven't been meeting nobody or goin out these past couple weeks and this co-worker is cute, not super special or anything but I know it's an easy layup. We've been gettin closer and I know that's wrong, I've dated a chick I worked with and it went bad so I know damn well I shouldn't even be entertaining this.

I need to think about other shyt, how do y'all stop thinkin about it. I can't go down that road

Funny....I'm having a similar situation, not the same, but similar. I came to the conclusion that it's best not to TRY to make anything happen and just let it all play out.....be extremely bluntly honest about what you want out of the ordeal with the chick and keep it as fun and non-committal and unserious as possible. Make sure you are dealing with an adult mentally and emotionally first and foremost.....if you can check those boxes, enjoy ya life.











AND ROCK A HAT

 

[The M.I.C.]

If she isn't involved with anyone.. where is the hesitancy coming from?

 

[Grizzly]

she fukked Usher

 

[Flywin Lannister]

backstory, I'm just gettin out of a relationship that went left. it's fine I'm over it, but it coincides where I've been workin a lot of hours and dealing with other personal shyt, no fap,etc so I haven't been meeting nobody or goin out these past couple weeks and this co-worker is cute, not super special or anything but I know it's an easy layup. We've been gettin closer and I know that's wrong, I've dated a chick I worked with and it went bad so I know damn well I shouldn't even be entertaining this.

I need to think about other shyt, how do y'all stop thinkin about it. I can't go down that road

Not super special = when you smash, this person will hold on to you like a mf'er and will expect more for the simple fact that not many people or maybe nobody is chasing this person. So you think you'll smash, and after a while say it won't be going down like that. But it won't be that easy. So since you work together, now she has the power to FUKK YOUR LIFE UP. She can take texts to HR and say you were coming on to her, harassing her even.. Result: you're done, no more work, no more income.

It's an easy layup. No it's not. You THINK it's an easy lay up cause they are throwing it at you. But trust me, this is NOT an easy lay up. You'll land and sprain you're ankles, rip your achilles heel.. that's what this is:

 

[75 Others]

I've dated a chick I worked with and it went bad so I know damn well I shouldn't even be entertaining this.

You already figured out the answer, why ask??

Oh, and shyt where you eat brehs

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

Going through the same my advice don't let feelings get involved. First time i fukked chick she was saying " I love you" long story short we started going together then broke up now i gotta see her everyday.

 

[Ronnie Macho]

backstory, I'm just gettin out of a relationship that went left. it's fine I'm over it, but it coincides where I've been workin a lot of hours and dealing with other personal shyt, no fap,etc so I haven't been meeting nobody or goin out these past couple weeks and this co-worker is cute, not super special or anything but I know it's an easy layup. We've been gettin closer and I know that's wrong, I've dated a chick I worked with and it went bad so I know damn well I shouldn't even be entertaining this.

I need to think about other shyt, how do y'all stop thinkin about it. I can't go down that road

This is what's going thru her mind...

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Make sure you are dealing with an adult mentally and emotionally first and foremost...

You already figured out the answer, why ask

Because I be at work like ... it's difficult to get through it I'm fiending

 

[4-Rin]

What kind of job is it?

 

[Neuromancer]

Never lay ya meat where you make ya bread. Pause

Levels.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

What kind of job is it?

I work in the state mental health department

 

[4-Rin]

I work in the state mental health department

You're making good money so don't do it

 

[Silkk]

Fool, you would easily come to your senses if you just fapped