Jodeci would be considered the best of the urban R&B groups, but Boyz II Men is much bigger than that, which is why they would go down in history as the better group.
It's like comparing Alicia Keys to Beyonce. Alicia Keys will most likely go down as the better artist because she is much bigger than the demographic that Beyonce appeals to, even though more people "that we know" probably like Beyonce's music more.
I have more Jodeci songs in my playlist than Boyz II Men by far, but that's my preference because I like Jodeci more. But I still think Boyz II Men will be viewed as the better group when it's all said and done.
Jodeci is viewed as a more urban R&B group... provided the blueprint for groups like Jagged Edge, and all of those other copycat groups. Jodeci is the leader of the pack by far, but I think they'll always be grouped with those type of groups because they are the pioneers in a sense.
And yes I agree, New Edition >>>>>>>> Boyz II Men
Yeah of course they will because Boyz II Men had that crossover music, appeal and success that Jodeci never had. The less raunchy Jodeci songs ("Lately" remake and "Come & Talk to Me") were their biggest hits on pop charts. Where as Boyz II Men's songs, were all big hits because they played it safe all the time. Clean cut image, suit and ties, clean lyrics, and great classic R&B but pop felt, production. Not to mention, they had the biggest producers and writers in the game at the time, huge record label (Motown) all helping them along the way. Thats what separates them from Jodeci the most. Just like MJ having Quincy, and later Teddy Riley for the Dangerous album....Janet Having Jam and Lewis throughout, Whitney had Babyface, etc. many big name artists that had big writers and producers will always get much more recognition and stand out more than their counterparts who did not.
Jodeci did set the blueprint for that "sex" music. After them, you had R. Kelly, H-Town, Silk etc. all stepping on the scene, and later Ginuwine (who was Devantes protege), Jagged Edge, Jaheim, Next, Dru Hill etc. all showing who they got their influence, and style, and wardrobe from.
But I agree, Boyz II Men will be the best in the pop-r&b audience world, but to the strictly urban crowd it's Jodeci hands down.
I have both their discographies in my music collection and listen to both, but listen to Jodeci's much more often.