On the real, why don't we just stop paying for females in general

[Strawberry]

kind of a spin off the thread where breh wanted his $6 back for the drink but to avoid getting curved and embarrassed like his ass, how about dudes not buy a damn thing for a woman from now on?

you a feminist and you want equality? pay for your own meal

you in the club and all dudes is thirsty? buy your own drink, pay your own cover and no you can't get in free before 11

you ain't down to Netflix and chill? take me out then


the modern female wants to have her cake and eat it too whilst bringing nothing to the table but some pussois and her own self sufficiency, so why the hell we still buyin em shyt? how long we gon tolerate this shyt for brehs? i thought it was #HOH? i thought it was money over bytches? we need to put an end to this simping shyt once and for all right got damn now cause it's outta control

When bars/clubs/events let women in free before 11 it's because they want girls to be there so that when men come they have more of an incentive to pay the cover/party there.



You want to pay cover to go in a bar/club/event with a bunch of other men? You down with sausage parties?

 

[Ashley Banks]

@Juicy @wickedsm @TheStripper
So the first date to a woman is finding out if he is broke/cheap?
A first date to a man is finding out if she's a gold digger?
While both are finding out if they have things in common

Not at all but ok.

 

[Remote]

Men are always going to pay for women.
It's just part of that inherent protector/leader thing that's in us.

Like anything else it's a matter of context.

A $150 dinner with your GF or Wife isn't the same as a $150 dinner on a 1st date with a stranger.

We have to be smarter about it.
But I think this thread was made tongue-in-cheek as a jab at feminists who want everything to be equal....except when they don't. And to a degree, yes, they're the ones "ruining the game" for everyone.

Let's be honest though. If your sister or daughter told you she went out with a man and she paid for everything, you'd probably tell her to dump him.



I still love the trolling undertones of the thread tho.

 

[thatdude954]

Y'all act like y'all were spending money on dates anyways ole Netflix and chill brehs


Men these days aren't asking women out
Most aren't paying if they do go out (let's take a walk in the park )

Most aren't getting married

Hell some women outchea asking y'all

And most Black women are working to contribute to the household or out earning men all together

Y'all sure ain't pushing out babies

What is it that you new aged Nikka's bring to the table?

Why take you on a date and spend $30-$40 if we can chill free? If you're feeling me then why does it matter where I take you?
By chill I mean spend time together. I honestly feel like if more females paid theyre half some dudes would come around to traditional dating.

A date to a woman is free whether it be at her house or Red lobster.
A date to a man is free at my house and $40 at Red Lobster.

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

When bars/clubs/events let women in free before 11 it's because they want girls to be there so that when men come they have more of an incentive to pay the cover/party there.



You want to pay cover to go in a bar/club/event with a bunch of other men? You down with sausage parties?

Hell yeah wassup

 

[thatdude954]

Not at all but ok.

Im honestly asking for your opinion. no trolling.

 

[wickedsm]

@Juicy @wickedsm @TheStripper
So the first date to a woman is finding out if he is broke/cheap?
A first date to a man is finding out if she's a gold digger?
While both are finding out if they have things in common

Well I'm married. But way back when when I was dating
The first date for me was finding out if what we had in common and if we enjoyed spending time together
If I liked him and he liked me.
Finding out if we are sexually attracted to one another.
Him paying didn't prove to me that he was broke or rich.
It proved to me that he is gentlemanly and believes in traditional roles
As far as dating and relationships go.
I'm a very traditional /old school style wife/of
So that's important to me.

If a chick is a gold digger you wouldn't know it just because she expected you to pay for a date.unless she expected something unreasonable.
-there was the one breh on here who had a chick basically demand Ruth Chris on a first date, bushes is a good place for her.

Ftr my first date with husband number 1 was a double date with my girl and his cousin and we went to a park and went for ice cream.
Yes he paid.

First date with my current and final husband our first date was 4 days and 3 nights in beautiful key west.
I paid for my plane ticket and he and I split pretty much everything else

you guys are making entirely too much out of this imho. But I suppose it's better than the guys I've seen here and elsewhere who bytch and moan about opening doors or giving up their seat for an elderly person or pregnant woman.

 

[Cynic]

Nope. Women already have the opportunity to sell p*ssy for cash and most dont.
Hell any adult female right now could move to those areas in nevada with open and legal prostitution
Today and start making that sweet p*ssy selling cash
But notice they don't

Or move to any one of the numerous countries where prostitution is legal and have the added draw of being an American woman.

Prostitution has been around since the dawn of time. There's never be a time where a majority of even large minority group of women
Chose prostitution as their means of support. (Obvious exceptions for rare occasions like during war times or in war torn countries)

You base this on today's legislation in which law enforcement run active stings.

You need to look at the statistics of prostitution/sex contractors both before and after legalization.

Human trafficking is another element you overlooked.


Also comprehension is very important, I specifically said an influx of first timers and part timers NOT full time escorts/prostitutes.

You say this as if women haven't lived under patrichial societies with certain stigma since the dawn of time. As if women have been independent and weren't forced to nurture and be in the home up until the 50s.

This isn't about women choosing to become sex workers en masse...its about women dabbling in it to make an easy buck to supplement income after legalization.

This artificial bump will compress rates as new stock enters the marketplace.

Supply and demand.

 

[Colicat]

Why take you on a date and spend $30-$40 if we can chill free? If you're feeling me then why does it matter where I take you?
By chill I mean spend time together. I honestly feel like if more females paid theyre half some dudes would come around to traditional dating.

A date to a woman is free whether it be at her house or Red lobster.
A date to a man is free at my house and $40 at Red Lobster.

Ok... Let's go with that.... Women are paying 50-50

What are y'all bringing to the table?

HDABG ?

 

[wickedsm]

Why take you on a date and spend $30-$40 if we can chill free? If you're feeling me then why does it matter where I take you?
By chill I mean spend time together. I honestly feel like if more females paid theyre half some dudes would come around to traditional dating.

A date to a woman is free whether it be at her house or Red lobster.
A date to a man is free at my house and $40 at Red Lobster.

Do more nontraditional dating behaviors cause that will surely make more men want to do more traditional behaviors?


Umm nope.

If I want traditional I'm gonna specifically look for a man who's traditional from day 1 just like I am.
No need to try to convert the rest of yall.

 

[wickedsm]

You base this on today's legislation in which law enforcement run active stings.

You need to look at the statistics of prostitution/sex contractors both before and after legalization.

Human trafficking is another element you overlooked.


Also comprehension is very important, I specifically said an influx of first comers and part timers NOT full time escorts/prostitutes.

You say this as if women haven't lived under patrichial societies with certain stigma since the dawn of time.

This isn't about women choosing to become sex workers en masse...its about women dabbling in it to make an easy buck to supplement income after legalization.

We can just agree to disagree because I do disagree with you.

Feel free to quote me and hit me with the
When this new world order comes and prostitution is completely legalized and has no attached social stigma
For either the customer or the sex workers and so many women are hopping into this new and exciting industry simply because of their entrepreneurial spirit.


The thought that a large portion of women would be anxious to take various dikks of unknown men with most likely poor quality day in and day out

Or that all men would be anxious to fukk some chick who's taking all these random dikks.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Im honestly asking for your opinion. no trolling.

Obviously the first date is to get to know the person, I think you know that.

 

[Strawberry]

Hell yeah wassup

Do you breh..I'll be at the next club daggerin the night away with real men

 

[Cynic]

We can just agree to disagree because I do disagree with you.

Feel free to quote me and hit me with the
When this new world order comes and prostitution is completely legalized and has no attached social stigma
For either the customer or the sex workers and so many women are hopping into this new and exciting industry simply because of their entrepreneurial spirit.

You take away the stigma and jail time....
It drives down prices due to oversupply...this will affect the full timers the most.

basic rudimentary economics across industries but you don't agree ?

You also don't provide any basis for 100 dollar bj from crackhead theory too...


What the....

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

Do you breh..I'll be at the next club daggerin the night away with real men