Michelle Obama says men are 'entitled and self-righteous' because women protect them too much

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Show me where women are checking one another on the regular.

Not in terms of fashion choices or some other bullshyt.

I'm talking about mating choices, career choices, personal finance, etc.

Her statement was broad, she never said anything about careers, personal finance, etc. it’s true women are more likely to talk their issues out as opposed to men:yeshrug:.
 

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In what ways are women protecting men too much though? :jbhmm:
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Then why are Black Women surpassing Black men...yall so quick to defend yaselves from truth instead of just looking in the mirror. :scust:

Because white people in charge on institutions give black females a pass, they don't want black men on the same playing field... Second alot of females going to college and getting degrees more than dudes but that's neither here nor there... There are plenty of black dudes without college degrees working blue collar jobs making money... Degrees arent everything...:francis:

Ask any rich white man would he hire a smarter more attractive smarter black man who could usurp him from his position or a black female he's not afraid of or who is on his side more than the black guy??? :manny:
 

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Give one example of women checking other women. Give one example of Michelle Obama checking other women. You can't give an example of either. It's sad that so many people are so full of shyt that they don't even realize it.

You're right. Female accountability has been wiped out of the culture.

It used to exist.

By tv example, call it the old "The Aunt Esther Code of Enforcement."

When in "Sanford and Son," Aunt Esther and her ladies council from the church would show up to Fred and Lamont's house when Lamont had women over, and Aunt Esther would whip out her purse Bible and use it to chase and beat the women who were dressed too provocatively in her eyes. That wasn't fiction or exaggeration. There were many Aunt Esthers around who helped keep us all in check.

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The "Aunt Esthers" who served as coaches for female behavior in the family and community, were displaced
by the self-possessed, career-driving Essence Mag/Oprah model. "Tap into your truest you!" (Narcissism).
This is how we later wound up with Mya singing "It's All About Me."

Narcissists blame others for anything they perceive as negative in their lives.
 

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It's like that in a lot of relationships. Women slide the debit card under the table so the man can pay for dinner. She works to put him through grad school. She is paying half or not most the bills but to the public he is the breadwinner. She is sending out resumes and motivating him to get off the couch, more than him. Even Sheila Johnson, ex wife of Bob Johnson founder of BET, use her connections and credit to launch the network (she is from old black money, Bob was a country nikka first generation in college) and in the end get cheated on and mistreated. It is said that Einstein's first wife, a physicists herself who did the research with him(and to this day the scientific community slights her like the do madam curry), decided to stay married for years enduring emotional abuse. She stayed after doing probabilities of his Nobel Peace prize winning and decided to stay in it for the money, he ended up cheating on her with and then marrying his cousin.

I talk to a lot of brehettes whose great aunts and grandmas who are in lifelong marriages talk about the bullshyt that they endured. Probably why you have so many women who are career focused or wanting to do them, marriage isn't a priority. Also a lot of women are single mothers while married so it's best to be a single mom in relative peace. :manny: Even the major three religions uphold this behavior. Even brehs on here think just because they go to the gym and work a job above median income they are entitled to an IG ho. Basically Michelle is saying no more playing second fiddle when ideally.
Just straight propaganda:heh: Revisionist history and made up anecdotal stories, and just believe it because it's what they want to believe. This is an example of why trump is pres.
You're right. Female accountability has been wiped out of the culture.

It used to exist.

By tv example, call it the old "The Aunt Esther Code of Enforcement."

When in "Sanford and Son," Aunt Esther and her ladies council from the church would show up to Fred and Lamont's house when Lamont had women over, and Aunt Esther would whip out her purse Bible and use it to chase and beat the women who were dressed too provocatively in her eyes. That wasn't fiction or exaggeration. There were many Aunt Esthers around who helped keep us all in check.

SanfordLaWanda-Page_Aunt-Esther.JPG


The "Aunt Esthers" who served as coaches for female behavior in the family and community, were displaced
by the self-possessed, career-driving Essence Mag/Oprah model. "Tap into your truest you!" (Narcissism).
This is how we later wound up with Mya singing "It's All About Me."

Narcissists blame others for anything they perceive as negative in their lives.
Yes, this was more than 50 years ago pre-black feminism. The social engineering has definitely been done deliberately by outside forces.
 

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It's like that in a lot of relationships. Women slide the debit card under the table so the man can pay for dinner. She works to put him through grad school. She is paying half or not most the bills but to the public he is the breadwinner. She is sending out resumes and motivating him to get off the couch, more than him. Even Sheila Johnson, ex wife of Bob Johnson founder of BET, use her connections and credit to launch the network (she is from old black money, Bob was a country nikka first generation in college) and in the end get cheated on and mistreated. It is said that Einstein's first wife, a physicists herself who did the research with him(and to this day the scientific community slights her like the do madam curry), decided to stay married for years enduring emotional abuse. She stayed after doing probabilities of his Nobel Peace prize winning and decided to stay in it for the money, he ended up cheating on her with and then marrying his cousin.

I talk to a lot of brehettes whose great aunts and grandmas who are in lifelong marriages talk about the bullshyt that they endured. Probably why you have so many women who are career focused or wanting to do them, marriage isn't a priority. Also a lot of women are single mothers while married so it's best to be a single mom in relative peace. :manny: Even the major three religions uphold this behavior. Even brehs on here think just because they go to the gym and work a job above median income they are entitled to an IG ho. Basically Michelle is saying no more playing second fiddle when ideally.

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People that dapped this post are some feminine "yass" bytches.

Marie Curie isn't slighted today, nor has she ever been slighted. I don't know where you got that nonsense from.

As for Einstein's wife, the only references to her being an early contributor to Einstein's work are people misinterpreting her family's comments.
But based on the many letters sent by Mileva and Einstein, Einstein was the only one talking about his various ideas/theories of physics whereas Mileva was not.

Also, Mileva failed her final examinations due to poor grades in math, and wasn't really considered a stellar or gifted physicist. Einstein loved physics which is why he talked about it so much in his letters and would spend countless hours studying it.

I doubt Mileva contributed to his work in a significant way as to suggest she should have been co-author to his 1905 paper.

People are trying to push that feminism revisionist history heavy I see.

As for what various women in your family told you, that is a one-sided perspective. Talk to the men and they'll tell you something different.

That whole post is a bunch of male-feminist nonsense.

There are countless stories about men paying for everything to only be killed or poisoned by their female spouse.

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In what ways are women protecting men too much though? :jbhmm:

Maybe I need to see a clip of her explaining that statement because what I read sounds like some horse shyt.

I think ya might be thinking "America" too much and not realize this is an international summit.

In a lot of nations, there is a MAJOR problem with sons being coddled. Like, to the point where malnutrition rates, illness rates, even death rates are way higher for girls because the male babies are valued so much more than the good babies. The girls are treated really sternly their entire upbringing, while the boys are spoiled because they have responsibility for taking care of their parents when they are older, and I've heard people literally explain it as, "They think that if they upset him then he won't take care of them later on." So they spoil the hell out of the boy, excuse all his indiscretions, give him every opportunity, etc.

I mean, there are actual countries and subcultures where a family will :cape: for a son/brother/father who sexually abuses a child, even if the victim is another person in their own family, and do everything possible to cover it up. But that same family might kill their own daughter if she even had consensual sex outside of marriage. Of course not every place is like that, but there are levels to that shyt and even if they're not killing their daughters, they are still holding them to a completely different standard.

I've traveled enough to know exactly what she was talking about. And I'd bet you anything there be dysfunctional families like that in America too.
 
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the issue is that these people never spoke about black issues.

all that name calling is childish.

stop caping for white supremacists in black skin and their destructive talking points.

people are dying, fukk waiting in line to politely ask massa for a butter biscuit when its convenient for them.

you're full of shyt. why are you even on this website besides to cause confusion?
LMAO you're proving my point. This has nothing to do with the topic of this thread.
 

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I think ya might be thinking "America" too much and not realize this is an international summit.

In a lot of nations, there is a MAJOR problem with sons being coddled. Like, to the point where malnutrition rates, illness rates, even death rates are way higher for girls because the male babies are valued so much more than the good babies. The girls are treated really sternly their entire upbringing, while the boys are spoiled because they have responsibility for taking care of their parents when they are older, and I've heard people literally explain it as, "They think that if they upset him then he won't take care of them later on." So they spoil the hell out of the boy, excuse all his indiscretions, give him every opportunity, etc.

I mean, there are actual countries and subcultures where a family will :cape: for a son/brother/father who sexually abuses a child, even if the victim is another person in their own family, and do everything possible to cover it up. But that same family might kill their own daughter if she even had consensual sex outside of marriage. Of course not every place is like that, but there are levels to that shyt and even if they're not killing their daughters, they are still holding them to a completely different standard.

I've traveled enough to know exactly what she was talking about. And I'd bet you anything there be dysfunctional families like that in America too.

It is a biological imperative to value boys as they usually are better suited to protect the land and gather resources for societal growth.
That doesn't mean they shouldn't be held accountable for egregious crimes. But the value of a male has always been more-or-less significant. Not only are males adept at building societies, they are also givers of life.

And it isn't that society necessarily coddles males rather expects a lot out of males as opposed to females.

Males are expected to grow up and build something, and gather enough resources to help their family, and a male worth his salt will do as such.

Michelle Obama made a dumb point.
 
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