Ladies of thecoli......What does it mean when a woman says you intimidate her?

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Means you have a commanding presence and she couldn't bring it out of her to talk to you. You had enough of an effect on her to have her ask
someone else, though.

I get it all the time, partially due to my body language, and partially because of the :birdman: face.
 

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I get it all the time :manny:

I have a strong presence
i can feel it thru the internet

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I was thinking about this for about a day. I went out on bar hopping saturday night and at my 3rd bar; me and my boi was chilling, talking and drinking. This female came up and started talking to me and my boi; she was cool looking chick (persian) and I asked who was she with and she pointed to her friends. Her friends came over and we all talked for awhile and my boi liked the girl that started talking to us and he exchanged numbers her. The other chick was looking at me and was nervous acting; I was cracking joke and I like fukk it I aint tripping. So the spot closed and me and my boi dipped to grab some eats from wendys to sober up. We were in the parking lot chilling and the homie got a text from the persian chick and she said that her friend wanted my number and she said that her friend said I was intimidating. I started laughing and my boi asked me what does that mean. I was like I don't know; that's the first time I heard that.
Anybody can answer; it's fair game:manny:
It means she can't outwit you and is scared to disrespect you
 

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In relationships you are vulnerable to each other. It doesn't require sacrificing safety or comfort.
I'm saying :heh: the whole premise of entering into a relationship with someone is to open yourself up to that person...obviously to varying degrees based person to person but the concept is universally the same...even for you #HOH nikkas too :ufdup:
 

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I was thinking about this for about a day. I went out on bar hopping saturday night and at my 3rd bar; me and my boi was chilling, talking and drinking. This female came up and started talking to me and my boi; she was cool looking chick (persian) and I asked who was she with and she pointed to her friends. Her friends came over and we all talked for awhile and my boi liked the girl that started talking to us and he exchanged numbers her. The other chick was looking at me and was nervous acting; I was cracking joke and I like fukk it I aint tripping. So the spot closed and me and my boi dipped to grab some eats from wendys to sober up. We were in the parking lot chilling and the homie got a text from the persian chick and she said that her friend wanted my number and she said that her friend said I was intimidating. I started laughing and my boi asked me what does that mean. I was like I don't know; that's the first time I heard that.
Anybody can answer; it's fair game:manny:
I've been told that by many females, and they always reveal it after getting to know me, etc.

It usually goes something like,"yeah I used to always notice you but I never said anything because I was always intimidated by you."

I ask why, and they usually say something to the effect of it being the way I look (mean) and the way I carry myself (very no-nonsense and serious).

It's just the way I am.

And I've found that while it's very appealing to women, it's also intimidating at the same time :manny:
 

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I've been told that by many females, and they always reveal it after getting to know me, etc.

It usually goes something like,"yeah I used to always notice you but I never said anything because I was always intimidated by you."

I ask why, and they usually say something to the effect of it being the way I look (mean) and the way I carry myself (very no-nonsense and serious).

It's just the way I am.

And I've found that while it's very appealing to women, it's also intimidating at the same time :manny:
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