You want to know why so many men are put off on the idea of dating a single mom?
Because relationships are already hard already with just you and a woman. Men think of all the women
you dated, think of all the failures, the heartbreak the infidelity. Now think about adding a child to the mix,
think about adding a baby father and his family, think about financial strains for what?
1. you will never be first, or even second.
2.Think about the difficulties you face in your own life as a single male and then consider how much more diffictult it would be to get by if you weak and stupid
3. the average cost to raise a child is 250,000. Why invest a cent of your hard earn money into something that isn't yours?
But but the dad isn't in the picture it's perfect he never sees his child no worries.
Well back up a second, if the dad isn't in the picture, then look at her decision making, she decided to have a child with someone who doesn't even care about her or his child, great decision making.
But the dad is in the picture, they just weren't meant to be together that's all
I wouldn't even date a woman whose still speaking to a ex, yet alone dating a single mother.
We all know the "horrible, loser" baby father will come around when he pleases, we all know no matter what she tells you,
deep down she still wants the white picket fence and a family with him. We all know it can go from "reincar wow,
treyvathian jr and I are so lucky to have you" to
Me and
Treyvathian have decided to try and make it work for
treyvathian jr sorry. And we all know she is settling for you, you were not her first option to have a child with.
Let's be real
It's amazing this author says "his dad rocks", so if his dad rocks why aren't you with this rocking dad? if this dad rocks and has a child with you, how can any man compare to that?
Even as a man if we "rock", we won't have a child with you a strong connection which means more than likely it won't work out anyways.
a statement that not looking for father, he has one and he rocks, serves a few purposes.
1. she thinks it will off less men
2. it makes her value go up in her eyes, she appears less needy and projects the ex not a 100% loser therefore she is not totally guilty by association.
It's amazing how
Low Drama is mentioned.
, going to have to deal with ugh I can't find a babysitter for
treyvathian jr., ugh he doesn't want to take him this weekend.
Let's be real single childless woman love drama, so a woman with a child and a baby father that aren't together are going to be drama free?
In the end only simps, betas, willstyles and suckers date single mothers. They all get suckered in like wow how is a great woman like this single, she cooks, she's clean, she has mother attributes, wow her baby dad is horrible how could he leave this perfect situation, as you enter the TRAP.
In the majority of the cases she's just looking for a guy to raise her kids, a extra paycheck, trying to make baby daddy jealous because if she's seen with someone that means someone sees her as "valuable" and in her mind baby dad will see her as valuable and not worthless and take her back.
I always laugh when single mothers think they have options and are strong, and guys want them. It goes back to the women can't tell the difference between guys who want to be in a committed relationship with them and guys who just want to bang and clang.
It's amazing how they all play the victim role, never bringing up their poor decision making, no it's always "he changed"
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But but reincar, I know this girl who has two kids and she got married and she is happy. Yeah I know soemone who had terminal lung cancer and they are still alive years later, but the majority of folks with terminal lung cancer will die a early death. Just like the majority of single moms will gasp remain single, will be used by men, will be on pof hoping for a nice guy, and will raise 70% of the future jail population.
Life is short already, i can die any day and you can to, so why should I sacrice a twinge of my happines, why should any man sacrifice his right to share in fatherhood for the first time with a woman who has no offspring , why should any man put up with stress and emotional baggage by cleaning up someone elses mess.
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and don't even try to date her. I know single moms like that and they're disgusting and the scum of the earth.
