Lamar Givens

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If he can't make you have an orgasm you will hate sex and wonder why people want to do it all the time. He won't understand why you won't want to have sex and probably not realise what he is doing wrong. Also, your bodies could not be compatible. There is nothing worse than having sex with someone who doesn't have a compatible body. I can't imagine being stuck with that forever.

If you have only been with that person how would you know what you are missing?

Are you saying that the entire total sum of a relationship is you having 7-10 seconds of musle contractions/spasms?
 

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If he can't make you have an orgasm you will hate sex and wonder why people want to do it all the time. He won't understand why you won't want to have sex and probably not realise what he is doing wrong. Also, your bodies could not be compatible. There is nothing worse than having sex with someone who doesn't have a compatible body. I can't imagine being stuck with that forever.
Sexual incompatibility can't be fixed? Why do people think that the first sexual experience with your spouse can't be fixed? If they chose do date and get married in the first place, the attraction is already there. Do sparks have to fly on the first try? Is there a "you only get one shot to make me orgasm" rule when it comes to sex?

:jbhmm:

If you're married can you not ask him you're looking for him to do you sexually to bring you pleasure? Couples can always try...

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I find it funny when people use the sex compatibility argument.

I counsel married people everyday who have great sex lives and they are still unfaithful and unhappy in their marriages.

:mjlol:

@ people who think good sex is going to carry you through a 30,40,50 year marriage with all of lifes uncertainties.

I'm glad my father taught me that sex is nothing more than a physical sensation and it's not the most important aspect of a marriage.

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I find it funny when people use the sex compatibility argument.

I counsel married people everyday who have great sex lives and they are still unfaithful and unhappy in their marriages.

:mjlol:

@ people who think good sex is going to carry you through a 30,40,50 year marriage with all of lifes uncertainties.

I'm glad my father taught me that sex is nothing more than a physical sensation and it's not the most important aspect of a marriage.

:blessed:

No one is saying good sex = strong marriage, but it sure doesn't hurt. Plus bad sex can doom a marriage.
 

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No one is saying good sex = strong marriage, but it sure doesn't hurt. Plus bad sex can doom a marriage.

If two people in a marriage are willing to communicate sex in a marriage can be fixed.

Now it's different if bruh has a medical condition like a micro penis then that's another story.

Back in my womanizing days I never had the attitude with women that I was king ding a ling when having sex.

I always asked a woman before sex what were the things that sends her over the edge. I did exactly what they said. I've never pissed or shyttd on a female and I never have eaten a woman's butt hole or had anal sex. But any other things they needed for stimulation I did until they got that nut.

However this only works when you have a mature woman who knows her body and is willing to communicate.

If you are messing with a female who does not know her body and expects you to be a pornstar this is when things can go south if you're not able to live up to her unrealistic expectations.
 

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Great post op

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Sexual incompatibility can't be fixed? Why do people think that the first sexual experience with your spouse can't be fixed? If they chose do date and get married in the first place, the attraction is already there. Do sparks have to fly on the first try? Is there a "you only get one shot to make me orgasm" rule when it comes to sex?

:jbhmm:

If you're married can you not ask him you're looking for him to do you sexually to bring you pleasure? Couples can always try...

:jbhmm:
Ummm sexual incompatibility is usually experienced over a period of time. Nothing I said suggested a one and done.
 
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