"You have to love the stranger your wife may become" - My Brother's pre-marriage Counselor

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People grow or regress and change. The person you are now might not be the person you are 10-20 years later and that goes your spouse. Marriage is the journey of two people together.
 

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How do I tell her to wash her pussi after work:unimpressed:

Bathing at 6am, then working all day going up 'n down and then come back expecting me to eat you out at 9pm ain't it.

She should be doing that automatically :mjtf:

In fact before any sexual contact both people should have a shower.
 

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Gah damm 2 threads on marriage nikka today!!

This nikka hate Black women.
This nikka stay trying to disparage marrige!
This nikka stay mad at mafukkas buying new sneakers!
This nikka been talking about buying the same Audi for 10 years!



:dead:

the coli is autism spectrum central.

And he publicly shames his own blood brother 2 boot. (he probably doesn't have one IRL.....OP smells like he's the youngest with 3 older sisters)



Air out your family's dirty laundry brehs :martin:
 

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I mean your wife is not going to be the same person every 10 years, but in no way is she supposed to become a stranger. Y'all are supposed to evolve together. If that doesn't happpen then divorce may be inevitable.

You shouldn't have to live with a stranger into old age. That's wild.
I think that might be too literal. I doubt he meant actual stranger. Its an attention getter and it makes you think. Point is the person you marry now and the person you are with in 20 years will be very different people and you need to be prepared for that, and like you said evolving together, or it will indeed end in divorce or yall with both be miserable.
 

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How do I tell her to wash her pussi after work:unimpressed:

Bathing at 6am, then working all day going up 'n down and then come back expecting me to eat you out at 9pm ain't it.




HELL MUTHAFUÇKING NAH!!!!!


:scust::what::gucci::mjtf::huhldup::damn:
 

Henny and_ HotWings

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Bmore stand up!
i think men need to think if marriage is really for them or not… seriously

Just think about how stressed some of you get just asking questions about it, real talk… shyt gonna make you age faster

Sometimes the risks outweigh the benefits

shyt ain’t always sweet out here… I’m still trying to figure out if I want it my damn self so I’m not judging…. just being real
 
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