I Wouldn't say u not a real man if u chose not to its all about what u want to do And a female shouldn't pressure u into nothing
What kills me about some women with kids is, they really have a weird sense of entitlement when it comes to men. "Ohhhh, you don't like kids, do you?"
"If he wants to be with me, he has to accept my kids too."
And now this gem that is the subject of the thread, "A real man will love another man's child as his own."
I love how women who think like this are completely unaware of how entitled those sentiments are. And really lets call it what it is, insecurity. They know they fukked up and are at the low end of the totem pole when it comes to being courted, so they put on airs. Like it's reverse psychology with them saying it's not them that's fukked up, it's the men who won't accept them.