Would You Let A Woman Buy You Stuff And Take Care Of You?

[SheWantTheD]

Let's say you are in your early 20s and your looks and body is on point (no homo), and you in college but got no money.

And you meet a woman that's in her late 20s or early 30s and y'all get shyt poppin'. Her career is set and she making bank, and she wants to spend it on you. She pays for dates, where ever y'all go, buys you gifts, etc and she bad as fukk.

Would you let her buy you stuff and take care of you?

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Duh

 

[#SOG_soldier]

Yes nikka

 

[Mugenight]

Let's say you are in your early 20s and your looks and body is on point (no homo), and you in college but got no money.

And you meet a woman that's in her late 20s or early 30s and y'all get shyt poppin'. Her career is set and she making bank, and she wants to spend it on you. She pays for dates, where ever y'all go, buys you gifts, etc and she bad as fukk.

Would you let her buy you stuff and take care of you?

2 women tried this it just didn't set well with me honestly.

So no never again.

 

[SheWantTheD]

2 women tried this it just didn't set well with me honestly.

So no never again.

why what happened?

 

[Malik1time]

nope now if a girl pays for a date here and there then ok
but you talking a women taking care of you thats a no no...i got too much pride

 

[Mugenight]

why what happened?

Not necessarily on topic.

First time I was in high school I was a freshman chick was a junior tried to buy my love felt it was mostly food or clothes felt like a bytch ended it.

The second time I was 19 living in Portland Oregon at the time trying to complete my GED meet a 29-year-old chick got to know her found out my school was in walking distance started with a ride and before long this situation mirrored the first feeling like a ain't shyt dude and ended it.

Just couldn't do it.

 

[Kisame]

have no problem with a woman taking care of me

 

[SheWantTheD]

Not necessarily on topic.

First time I was in high school I was a freshman chick was a junior tried to buy my love felt it was mostly food or clothes felt like a bytch ended it.

The second time I was 19 living in Portland Oregon at the time getting my trying to complete my GED meet a 29-year-old chick got to know her found out my school was in walking distance started with a ride and before long this situation mirrored the first feeling like a ain't shyt dude and ended it.

Just couldn't do it.

Were they controlling or tried to threaten you with the stuff they did for you or make you feel guilty about it?

 

[Aphrodite]

I know guys like this.

 

[Matt504]

No and I wouldn't recommend anyone else do it.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Nah I don't want her paying for everything...

A new Xbox for christmas would be real caring tho

 

[Matt504]

Not necessarily on topic.

First time I was in high school I was a freshman chick was a junior tried to buy my love felt it was mostly food or clothes felt like a bytch ended it.

The second time I was 19 living in Portland Oregon at the time getting my trying to complete my GED meet a 29-year-old chick got to know her found out my school was in walking distance started with a ride and before long this situation mirrored the first feeling like a ain't shyt dude and ended it.

Just couldn't do it.

I've had similar experiences to these they've ended due to me feeling the same way, I don't know how dudes do it and feel comfortable with the situation.

 

[Mugenight]

Were they controlling or tried to threaten you with the stuff they did for you or make you feel guilty about it?

Nah no threats

The first chick was actually pretty chill.

The second was kinda eh.......off?

Anyway in both cases this might sound weird but I personally felt like they had leverage over me.

 

[SheWantTheD]

No and I wouldn't recommend anyone else do it.

why not? got some experience?