Y'all are suckers for worrying about this topic so much. I see it here everyday so don't tell me there isn't a reason why its such a hot topic. But lets explore why "Bedwenching" is hot. It has to do with deep seeded insecurity. Lets dig deep and really talk about it if were going to talk about it. fukk all this bullshyt "I don't care about IR dating but______"(13 pages later) y'all still talking about not caring. naw nikka you care, because if u didn't all these threads wouldn't be so hot.
Alot of black men are struggling and catching hell out here. No jobs, cac boss giving u shyt at the job, cops harassing u, ppl treating u like you're a monster when you their presence. Then when you see a fine sista hugged up with a white guy it cuts deep right? fukks with you head don't it ? Because you know in the pit of your stomach that this Adam Sandler looking white guy be having that Nubian dime in some type of bondage contraption at night recreating the gimp scene off of pulp fiction and you just gotta stand there and accept it. So you tell yourself "but but but he got money, yeah man its the money...yup it gotta be the money? right? yup?. shes getting paid" Nope! what if she enjoys it? what if she pays him? what if its her idea? that's really a mind fukk right? haha Because you been taught by your elders that unicorns exist. They never taught you exactly how human nature truly works
And no there is no karmatic repercussions either. Nobody is going to lose or be punished like y'all think. Y'all think there's type of invisible universal energy that's going to punish these woman or something. Y'all think some type of nikka batman is waiting on top of a skyscraper in the shadows of a dark alley to undo this injustice. He's not, they're going to do whatever they want while you stand there all mad typing on the coli "these bedwenches rah rah rah" nobody cares nikka. When a nikka is wearing a romper and walking around high off molly, hes happy. He don't give a fukk what you think. People do what they want to do.
constantly worrying about shyt u cant control is stupid . Detachment is key. Like the urban poet Nas stated in his song "Roses" "If you're mad at that, you'll be mad forever" y'all going to be mad forever because guess what ... the world does what it wants to do , not what you want it to do. We live in a society were trannys roam the streets looking like real woman and nikkas are rocking rompers and y'all still take this thing seriously talking about the "future" what future lol? what? watching Monday football and eating at restaurants until u die. nikka that's the future lol
Let black woman date whom ever they want. Mind your business. Life is short and y'all of us are going to be old soon anyway. Why do you care again? Oh I know, its because you been indoctrinated with these false concepts of "black love" "loyalty" etc... You do know these are just marketing slogans right? to sell you products and services? right? People do what they want to do in every aspect of life. So why do y'all still believe in this shyt.
There is no such thing as Black love, White love, Asian love, Hispanic love etc...You might have 2 ppl from the same race group that happen to love each other but there's no universal concept "____ love" its literally some bullshyt that hotep nikkas threw on merchandise in the 90's to sale local festivals to emotional vulnerable people that believe in that bullshyt.
If we live in a capitalistic society where our very survival is predicated on self gain, how do you expect anybody to ever follow these "rules" that many of you still believe in. These rules don't exist. Theres literally is no order in this society. Its the wild wild west. You can be whatever u want and do whatever u want. So either you can join or stay mad on the sidelines. Your choice my friend. Because guess what? the world is going to keep changing. Acceptance is key
Alot of black men are struggling and catching hell out here. No jobs, cac boss giving u shyt at the job, cops harassing u, ppl treating u like you're a monster when you their presence. Then when you see a fine sista hugged up with a white guy it cuts deep right? fukks with you head don't it ? Because you know in the pit of your stomach that this Adam Sandler looking white guy be having that Nubian dime in some type of bondage contraption at night recreating the gimp scene off of pulp fiction and you just gotta stand there and accept it. So you tell yourself "but but but he got money, yeah man its the money...yup it gotta be the money? right? yup?. shes getting paid" Nope! what if she enjoys it? what if she pays him? what if its her idea? that's really a mind fukk right? haha Because you been taught by your elders that unicorns exist. They never taught you exactly how human nature truly works
And no there is no karmatic repercussions either. Nobody is going to lose or be punished like y'all think. Y'all think there's type of invisible universal energy that's going to punish these woman or something. Y'all think some type of nikka batman is waiting on top of a skyscraper in the shadows of a dark alley to undo this injustice. He's not, they're going to do whatever they want while you stand there all mad typing on the coli "these bedwenches rah rah rah" nobody cares nikka. When a nikka is wearing a romper and walking around high off molly, hes happy. He don't give a fukk what you think. People do what they want to do.
constantly worrying about shyt u cant control is stupid . Detachment is key. Like the urban poet Nas stated in his song "Roses" "If you're mad at that, you'll be mad forever" y'all going to be mad forever because guess what ... the world does what it wants to do , not what you want it to do. We live in a society were trannys roam the streets looking like real woman and nikkas are rocking rompers and y'all still take this thing seriously talking about the "future" what future lol? what? watching Monday football and eating at restaurants until u die. nikka that's the future lol
Let black woman date whom ever they want. Mind your business. Life is short and y'all of us are going to be old soon anyway. Why do you care again? Oh I know, its because you been indoctrinated with these false concepts of "black love" "loyalty" etc... You do know these are just marketing slogans right? to sell you products and services? right? People do what they want to do in every aspect of life. So why do y'all still believe in this shyt.
There is no such thing as Black love, White love, Asian love, Hispanic love etc...You might have 2 ppl from the same race group that happen to love each other but there's no universal concept "____ love" its literally some bullshyt that hotep nikkas threw on merchandise in the 90's to sale local festivals to emotional vulnerable people that believe in that bullshyt.
If we live in a capitalistic society where our very survival is predicated on self gain, how do you expect anybody to ever follow these "rules" that many of you still believe in. These rules don't exist. Theres literally is no order in this society. Its the wild wild west. You can be whatever u want and do whatever u want. So either you can join or stay mad on the sidelines. Your choice my friend. Because guess what? the world is going to keep changing. Acceptance is key
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I never really saw bw/Wm couples until it started happening in media with movies, TV shows and commercials..now every day that I'm out I see it.