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1. how uncomfortable would you be dating a guy who makes say 10-15 grand less than you?

2. how uncomfortable would you be if you had a car while he took the bus?

3. would this make you feel in control of the relationship and look at him like less of man?
 

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1. how uncomfortable would you be dating a guy who makes say 10-15 grand less than you?
Don't care. I already have my own $ so his $ is of little importance to me.

2. how uncomfortable would you be if you had a car while he took the bus?
Not everyone is fortunate to have a car :yeshrug: Plus if we're dating I have no problem picking him up or letting him use my car (as long as he fills the tank back to where I had it before handing it over).

3. would this make you feel in control of the relationship and look at him like less of man?

I dont believe in one person having "control" over a relationship. Each person brings their own strengths to the table in order for the relationship to flourish.
 

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1. how uncomfortable would you be dating a guy who makes say 10-15 grand less than you?

He has gainful employment. Why would that be a problem?

2. how uncomfortable would you be if you had a car while he took the bus?

Not applicable, I ride the train.

3. would this make you feel in control of the relationship and look at him like less of man?

Neither possessions or money give an individual sole control of a relationship; nor make them less than a human being.
 

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1. how uncomfortable would you be dating a guy who makes say 10-15 grand less than you?

2. how uncomfortable would you be if you had a car while he took the bus?

3. would this make you feel in control of the relationship and look at him like less of man?
1. It all depends on how he manages his money. I.E. He's making 25k but has little to no debt and decent credit vs. a guy making 85k with a shytty credit score and bad money management skills. I want to see financial responsibility. Either way, what's mines is mines and what's his is his.

2. I wouldn't be uncomfortable at all, doesn't mean he's gonna be pushing my whip everywhere all of a sudden. :usure:

3. If he's a man he's going to assume that role regardless.
 

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1. It all depends on how he manages his money. I.E. He's making 25k but has little to no debt and decent credit vs. a guy making 85k with a shytty credit score and bad money management skills. I want to see financial responsibility. Either way, what's mines is mines and what's his is his.

2. I wouldn't be uncomfortable at all, doesn't mean he's gonna be pushing my whip everywhere all of a sudden. :usure:

3. If he's a man he's going to assume that role regardless.

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