If women don’t like muscles why wasn’t the dudes in the magic mike movies dad bods/fat
I think their perception of who you are matters more.
If they perceive you as a meat head that only eats “healthy” counting every calorie then nah they won’t like it. If they perceive you as a guy that takes care of himself but will eat that ice cream and takeout with her then she’s likes it.
That’s the way my female friends explained it to me.
Weird thing about all that though is most fit girls with a nice ass body (pawgs, Mexican chicks, brehettes) I see in the gym be with a regular degular dad bod dude with no muscle and the muscle dudes be with a fat chick. I very rarely see a muscle dude with an equally fit chick.