Woman Not Dating You Because You're Not Hood Enough

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Is that a legit reason to not like a guy in your 20's, brehs? I know thats some high school shyt but it still goes on

I bring this up because a girl told me she feels her other chubby girlfriend wont ever find a man and feels the city is too small and everyone knows everyone, meanwhile, deep down, i feel she's single because she wants a hood nikka above all, not necessarily a thug drug dealer but a guy who still dresses urbanized like D-wade or some shyt. Not saying thats bad but if that lane of men dont want you, why keep chasing it?



Why all these bytches so fond of the hood cat?
  1. Whats her background like?
  2. whats a girls mentality?
  3. Is it a social thing? embarrased to be seen with a "square?"
  4. Is the media portraying the hood guys as more tough or some shyt?

is that why some white washed black men only date white women exclusively? is that a good look?

they need to have one of those tv specials with hood black people vs more open minded black folks because id love to hear the debate
 
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If you run into a women in her 20's who wont date you because you are not hood enough then you shouldnt want to be with her anyways. No woman in her 20's that has that mentality will amount to anything in life. Stop being so scorned and find a better female bruh, there are millions to choose from they all aren't the same.
 
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If you run into a women in her 20's who wont date you because you are not hood enough then you shouldnt want to be with her anyways. No woman in her 20's that has that mentality will amount to anything in life. Stop being so scorned and find a better female bruh, there are millions to choose from they all aren't the same.
:heh: no seriously this isnt about me, its an obvservation i noticied because her friend looks decent but i just cant like a girl with this thinking in her 20's. It actually makes me laugh and i brought it up to the Coli because its clear no one is telling her to step out of her bubble and meet different types of guys
 
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i mean, what other option do they have? you'd think they'd link up with white washed black women, but that rarely happens.
yeah thats what i used to think but i think black guys dont want to search when the majority of white women are more open to any type of male because they were raised in a way that their parents (if not racists) taught them to be open to all people and dont judge

but it seems majority of the black women feel like they already hate black men since they dont have a daddy and they take that inner hatred to high school and get off denying a good black student just to be hatin but thats a bad cycle IMO
 

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This has being going on since the 80's believe it or not.

Alot of women ESPECIALLY POOR GHETTO WOMEN WHO HAVE NO ESCAPE REALLY believe the hype of every dude in the hood should be frank lucas or close to it.

them women have been watching to many hood movies and reading to many of those ghetto novels and trying to bring fantasy into reality.

I go to work everyday and go pass the same women who wanted hood nikkas and majority of them have 3,4,5 kids looking 64 instead of 34 and now want that quiet life and a real 24/7 working brother to come along and coli save them.

My thing is if a woman wants a hood brother that's all i need to know where there mind is at and god has save me from having to deal with that
 
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This has being going on since the 80's believe it or not.

Alot of women ESPECIALLY POOR GHETTO WOMEN WHO HAVE NO ESCAPE REALLY believe the hype of every dude in the hood should be frank lucas or close to it.

them women have been watching to many hood movies and reading to many of those ghetto novels and trying to bring fantasy into reality.

I go to work everyday and go pass the same women who wanted hood nikkas and majority of them have 3,4,5 kids looking 64 instead of 34 and now want that quiet life and a real 24/7 working brother to come along and coli save them.

My thing is if a woman wants a hood brother that's all i need to know where there mind is at and god has save me from having to deal with that
Damn breh you spoke some realness
If she tells you she doesn't want you because you aren't hood enough, consider that a blessing that such an obvious sign has been made available to you on the type of woman you should avoid.
She never said it but its quite obvious, her crush was my homie and he loves to potray a fake thug so if anyone liked him, thats saying something :russ:
 

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some think they can fix you.... youre not a challenge.... im not a thug but i am hood & some chicks think they can make you better.....:yeshrug:
 
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