Iverson_64
Superstar
I'm just saying. We're currently at the peak of the proliferation of "Red Pill/Manosphere" content online which offers all sorts of suggestions and methods on how to attract and bag women.
Lifting and getting jacked is often suggested as the primary way for men to boost up their pull with women or give them more confidence to approach and date women. There's other things suggested too but working out is the main suggestion that deals with the physical on top of grooming and dressing nice.
Now, don't get me wrong. These things definitely help in the dating department for sure. I myself am in the gym 3-4 days a week even though I'm not built like Adonis or Terry Crews in the slightest(I have a very average semi-muscular slender body.)
But, from my experience, a man's ability to dance and sing well can draw and attract women just as much if not slightly more than lifting and getting a jacked/buff body.
Speaking from experience as someone's who's great at dancing(old school, new school, slow dancing, bachata, popping and locking, breaking, etc.), I can tell you from experience that dancing well is damn near a cheat code when it comes to attracting a good amount of women(esp. young women.) I've been to many events(parties, functions, weddings, clubs, etc) where my ability to dance well made me the center of attention and had women approaching me afterwards to chat and get to know me better.
Now, I've been off the market for a while now but, back when I was single and bouncing through different short term relationships, it definitely helped especially as a dude who's not all that top tier in looks or "Tupac in a business suit."
There's also singing too. I'm not that great of a singer but I know many dudes who can sing very well and the same Halo effect happens for them. Even ugly and fat dudes that can sing well and hold notes draw a similar amount of attention and curiosity from women. Even in the church, I noticed a lot of dudes who can sing have tons of church women swooning over them when they're done singing, sometimes even in an unholy manner.
And the young men especially who can sing had the young women in the church going crazy over them.
I'm not saying dancing/singing > working out/getting jacked because I believe that's totally situational and dependent on the person. But it still blows my mind how the manosphere and RP community still suggests the same old thing when it comes to attracting women: Hit the gym and stay groomed. And they rarely step outside the box and make other suggestions like dancing, singing, or being talented in some other field when it comes to attracting women.
You'd think they'd switch it up every now and again.
Lifting and getting jacked is often suggested as the primary way for men to boost up their pull with women or give them more confidence to approach and date women. There's other things suggested too but working out is the main suggestion that deals with the physical on top of grooming and dressing nice.
Now, don't get me wrong. These things definitely help in the dating department for sure. I myself am in the gym 3-4 days a week even though I'm not built like Adonis or Terry Crews in the slightest(I have a very average semi-muscular slender body.)
But, from my experience, a man's ability to dance and sing well can draw and attract women just as much if not slightly more than lifting and getting a jacked/buff body.
Speaking from experience as someone's who's great at dancing(old school, new school, slow dancing, bachata, popping and locking, breaking, etc.), I can tell you from experience that dancing well is damn near a cheat code when it comes to attracting a good amount of women(esp. young women.) I've been to many events(parties, functions, weddings, clubs, etc) where my ability to dance well made me the center of attention and had women approaching me afterwards to chat and get to know me better.
Now, I've been off the market for a while now but, back when I was single and bouncing through different short term relationships, it definitely helped especially as a dude who's not all that top tier in looks or "Tupac in a business suit."
There's also singing too. I'm not that great of a singer but I know many dudes who can sing very well and the same Halo effect happens for them. Even ugly and fat dudes that can sing well and hold notes draw a similar amount of attention and curiosity from women. Even in the church, I noticed a lot of dudes who can sing have tons of church women swooning over them when they're done singing, sometimes even in an unholy manner.
And the young men especially who can sing had the young women in the church going crazy over them.I'm not saying dancing/singing > working out/getting jacked because I believe that's totally situational and dependent on the person. But it still blows my mind how the manosphere and RP community still suggests the same old thing when it comes to attracting women: Hit the gym and stay groomed. And they rarely step outside the box and make other suggestions like dancing, singing, or being talented in some other field when it comes to attracting women.
You'd think they'd switch it up every now and again.
