Why/Why Not Are/Aren't Relationships For You?

[DatLBCGuy562]

...and when you decide? I decided about 10 years ago that I have no interest in being in a committed, romantic relationship ever again

Women are irrational and argumentative. Choosing the wrong one will literally ruin your life and steal your joy. As I age, I am a man who enjoys his peace of mind, tranquility, and resources IMMENSELY. Women will rob you of all three. I have made the decision to just have no strings attached fukk buddies until it's my time to check out this bytch

Going on 10 years now and I have no regrets. My goals are crystal clear and I am super focused. No argumentative, nagging ass bytch stealing my joy, draining my pockets, and giving me high blood pressure

I can't see my mind changing. This is my lifestyle and I happily embrace it

People who are in marriages and relationships. What makes them enjoyable and feasible to you? People who enjoy that single life. What made you swear off that love shyt and do this life thing solo? Drop your stories and perspectives that shape your mindset..

 

[King Khufu]

Relationships are for me because why be without? Sure I enjoy my own company but I like having someone to spend my time with. It feels good when shawty and I can be on the same wave length. Yeah, real talk.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

I'm slowly coming to the realization that relationships maybe just aren't for me.

I'm almost 30 and I never learned all the small shyt your supposed to as a teen.

I'm lonely all the time but the reality is I don't really want to compromise.

I'm not changing any aspect of who I am for a woman.

I will always have a messed up relationship with women in general.

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

I'm slowly coming to the realization that relationships maybe just aren't for me.

I'm almost 30 and I never learned all the small shyt your supposed to as a teen.

I'm lonely all the time but the reality is I don't really want to compromise.

I'm not changing any aspect of who I am for a woman.

I will always have a messed up relationship with women in general.

I'm the same way breh. You have to basically be a simp to be in a relationship. And nikkas in relationships can attempt to justify or sugar coat that fact anyway they'd like. But I'm not suppressing who I am or giving up things I enjoy to make ANY woman happy above myself. Because that's basically what you have to do to stave off arguments in relationships. Because, when it comes to women, if you're not constantly kissing their asses, giving them constant reaffirmation and validation, and doing what THEY wanna do and going where THEY wanna go, it's gonna be constant attitude/argument city. And, at this stage of my life (just turned 40) that shyt doesn't work for or fly with me. So I choose loneliness and solitude and peace over emasculating myself just for a steady and reliable stream of p*ssy

 

[Crude]

Relationships were for me because I viewed it as a more ideal situation to rear children and have a family.

I realized that there are very real consequences for knocking down jump-offs. Women are distracting, take energy when you are dealing with several, and many are high risk low reward once the benefits of constant sex wore off.

Relationships were for me because I occasionally enjoy having female company I could actually have a decent conversation with when I wasn't smashing.

Sometimes I like bouncing ideas off someone, and a female perspective is great for many things.

The financial partnership that comes with relationship is good too.

I could keep going but you get the point.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

I'm the same way breh. You have to basically be a simp to be in a relationship. And nikkas in relationships can attempt to justify or sugar coat that fact anyway they'd like. But I'm not suppressing who I am or giving up things I enjoy to make ANY woman happy above myself. Because that's basically what you have to do to stave off arguments in relationships. Because, when it comes to women, if you're not constantly kissing their asses, giving them constant reaffirmation and validation, and doing what THEY wanna do and going where THEY wanna go, it's gonna be constant attitude/argument city. And, at this stage of my life (just turned 40) that shyt doesn't work for or fly with me. So I choose loneliness and solitude and peace over emasculating myself just for a steady and reliable stream of p*ssy

I was outside my place smoking and a buddy of mine who's married pulled up on me. He ask to get some tree so we do and he's rolling a blunt in his car.

Afterwards he rolls his windows up, spraying the car taking bout "yea girl don't like that I smoke weed so I try to keep it on the low"

Imagine a grown ass man having to hide some shyt he do from a woman

I want to be in a relationship, but those are some things I just ain't tryna do.

 

[Swirv]

As long as my wife does what she’s supposed to do we’ll be straight. If not I’ll spend less time at home til she gets her mind right.

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Relationships are definitely my thing

Stability is my thing and don't care for having rosters. Even on my casual sexcapades I deal with one person at a time....

Failed ones don't deter me in the slightest, quick to find the next one...well usually


I've been on my Solo Dolo shyt for the past 3 months tho, been just enjoying my solo time but will jump back in at some point.

 

[Clay Puppington]

Afterwards he rolls his windows up, spraying the car taking bout "yea girl don't like that I smoke weed so I try to keep it on the low"

Imagine a grown ass man having to hide some shyt he do from a woman

30 seconds of febreeze ?

Cuss out ?

Wouldn't do it but it's easy 2 understand

 

[-deleted-]

Ugly

 

[Hoodoo Child]

Relationships aren't my thing (right now) because I'm still enjoying my options. At 22, it makes no since for me to be tied down with just one woman. So, long story-short, I'm not single because I 'want to be', I'm single because the tides are changing, and I wanna have fun.

These hoes want their backs blown out for the summer, and I'm here to assist.

 

[seymour cake]

I realized relationships wasn't for me after i was on one for 5+ years and found out shorty cheated. Life too short to give your all to one, just for them to do u dirty. Can't set up yourself for let downs.

Why be in one relationship for the rest of my life when i can mingle with whoever, whenever i please. Minus the headaches, and arguements etc.. Its literally millions of females on earth and u mean to tell me im supposed to be with just one. For FOREVER, nah.

 

[MoveForward]

I'm married and relationships aren't my thing. I love her soooooo much but when she finds another man/a serious prospect and leaves, I will be happy for her.

There is free porn, a push for legal prostitution, and I have a kid. What do I need women for? Companionship? Dogs are cheaper. Don't get me wrong, I don't hate women and I'm not some incel, but being in a relationship is draining.

 

[Berry]

Relationships are for me, because I like what comes with it. The close companionship, learning about eachother compromising for eachother, building eachother up, and building together.

However, they also have to be at the right time, sometimes depending on your place in life, the commitment, the sacrifice, the time, the vulnerability just isn’t appropriate.

For me it’s not right now, but sooner or later it will be again.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

30 seconds of febreeze ?

Cuss out ?

Wouldn't do it but it's easy 2 understand

I understand his situation.

It just seems like men have to compromise so much of who they are for a woman and I'm not exactly sure what it is women provide for you in the long run.

I just feel like dating is almost a talent show.

I'm supposed to show you who I am and how great of a person I am to win you, but who are you? What do you do? What is the prize other than sexual gratification that makes a man decide to compromise so much of who he is for her? Is it just the idea of not being alone?