Why millenials and Gen Z are no longer dating

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The internet did a number on people, social norms and interaction. Pumped a lot of anxiety into basic engagements between sexes. People viewing each other's sex as opposition. Expectations are high returns are low. A pool of shallow shyt people. No one wants to build just find perfection, so they can flaunt him/her on socials. Anything less is settling. So they all wait for the next because there are plenty just more is not better. There's always more out there, no need to value what you have.

Some of the best relationships you will ever see are with people who grew together watched each other struggle and glow up. Invested time with each other. People want that without the work like relationships can be had the same way we get most of our other fixes with instant gratification. But the Netflix and Amazon's of love, the dating apps... offer thrill but not much fulfillment. It's gonna be some harsh living for a lot of people in these generations full of shallow narcissists. Everyone isn't the prize. A lot of people should have settled. Humble yourselves. 😢
 

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She makes some good points.



Breh I’m sure she has some legit shyt to say but if we are keeping it 1000, a lot of these folks having difficultly in the dating game are simply a combination of insufferable, washed, unattractive, socially inept and just average.

But in their minds and mirrors, the don’t see that — even though it’s looking them in the face. Folks see a bad bítch in the mirror and the delusions of what they “deserve” just multiply from there.

It’s basically a disease.

On the other hand there are dudes outchea eating very well and females who are boo’d up but they just aren’t making a big ass deal about it. The ones struggling LOVE to post all kinds of bullshyt about the “struggle” and in turn, they continue to morph in the very being that makes them undateable.

Easy to blame the game when you’re losing :manny:
 

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Because social media life took over reality of life

On social media your this outgoing fun loving, top notch well known, well traveled, boss bytch, CEO, fast money brother with no time for anyone

However when u offline and can’t hide behind the mirror and u really just a regular 9-5 or not working motherfukker and only been to Miami or Vegas then when meet someone your not able to be honest with that person because u have so much bullshyt on your social media page that they can see through the bullshyt..

My cousin friend who I once was fukking his baby mama had his social media up saying he was a mortgage broker, student debt advisor and had his own llc, but his baby mama told me this nikka never had a car in his life and the nikka was 35 and he doesn’t work because he never paid child support in 14 years and I just laugh
 

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Because social media life took over reality of life

On social media your this outgoing fun loving, top notch well known, well traveled, boss bytch, CEO, fast money brother with no time for anyone

However when u offline and can’t hide behind the mirror and u really just a regular 9-5 or not working motherfukker and only been to Miami or Vegas then when meet someone your not able to be honest with that person because u have so much bullshyt on your social media page that they can see through the bullshyt..

My cousin friend who I once was fukking his baby mama had his social media up saying he was a mortgage broker, student debt advisor and had his own llc, but his baby mama told me this nikka never had a car in his life and the nikka was 35 and he doesn’t work because he never paid child support in 14 years and I just laugh
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Ugly and average women started having champagne taste with beer attractiveness. bytches about to put Applebee's outta business

Someone gave women a platform to express every retarded thought that comes to their mind and live it inside an echo chamber of likes and yessss girls

A lot of men stopped excercising, want baddies but expect a woman to love them for their fat sloppy self, pre courting.

Women don't want to build from the ground up together. They want men to have everything ready for them so they can benefit

Women became unapologetically obese and don't want fat boys

Big mouth women who want to be handled like a wild animal.

Women stopped cooking.

Simps who provide an alternative of passive income and activities for women who want to play the field causing men to take their ball and go home after being played for resources and entertainment

Men getting cheated on by women who use men as stepping stones and human vibrators.

Less women need a man to avoid being Homeless.

Too many size queens from women sleeping with the same group of men have made average buddies a little gun shy about pleasing a woman who's accustomed to having her cervix pounded into dust.

Women using child support as a form of passive Income.

You know who's Not having trouble though?
Men that know Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. Only trouble we have are women y'all bytch about trying to get Pregnant and give us STDs.
 
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People don't go out or know where to meet new people. From what I observe this is the biggest issue. I see it in so many forms. Leaning on the internet for dating (which gives people more issues mentally) or coworkers has become more common as a result.

People not heading to bars and clubs like that to meet new folks, nowadays those environments only appeal to a certain type. This why dudes should consider learning to cold approach more than ever but now they too scared. Idk
 
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