Why do women want to label interactions so quickly?

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I can do whatever the fukk I want, baby boy.

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If I want to fukk a guy with no emotional attachment and no expectations of having a future with him, I am free to do so.

It's not a "man thing". It's a human thing.
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So what, men can be attracted to thots/models but end up with a woman who can take care of him & the kids.

Everybody has a type they're attracted to, not just women.

When considering a significant other I never think "is he gonna lock me down?" :martin:

I'm thinkin shyt like "is this guy real enough for me?" "Would this guy make a good father one day
?" "Could I grow with this person?", "Would I be happy waking up everyday next to this person?" "Is this the person I want to have by my side while I'm riding this adventurous roller coaster through life?" "Can this guy satisfy all my sexual needs?"

"Is he gonna lock me down?" comes way after. I've never even made it that far yet. Much too serious of a question for a free spirit like me.

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I think you're just having a hard time accepting that men and women are not so different.
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Man, I ain't reading that nonsense. :skip:

Good luck out there!
 

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U can treat someone special and still not be in a relationship with them. U have no problem fukking her so u should have no problem not treating her like any Ole girl.
We'll what do you propose to be done. Mind you it's mentioned this is from women I've made my intentions clear with.
 

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Man, I ain't reading that nonsense. :skip:

Good luck out there!

Your posts in this thread hold the opinion that men and women cannot possible think or do the same things when it comes to relationships and you're calling my reasonable posts nonsense?

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I don't need your luck, I'm doing fine.

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As other ladies have said, its so that they don't invest in someone who won't invest in them.

However I don't agree with some of the other stuff that's being said. Contrary to popular belief it is entirely possible for women to be okay with just sex, but they need to know upfront if that's all there is to it so they can act accordingly. I also don't agree that if a woman asks what the relationship is she lost. I think assuming she can "just tell" from a man's words and actions is what gets women in trouble in the first place.
I never said assume. But asking "What are we?" As if it entirely his decision and you are just waiting for him to "like" you. You both should come to decision together and then go about setting rules and bounderies. I never in my life had to ask "what are we?" What you will be should be established before you open your legs.
 

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I never said assume. But asking "What are we?" As if it entirely his decision and you are just waiting for him to "like" you. You both should come to decision together and then go about setting rules and bounderies. I never in my life had to ask "what are we?" What you will be should be established before you open your legs.

I never said a thing about "opening your legs".

But your comment brings up an interesting point. Is the decision to have sex a mutual one? In your dealings with men, did you both make a decision together to have sex, or did he proposition you first?
 
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