Why do women want to label interactions so quickly?

[Neuromancer]

Why does this happen? I feel like a number of females I've dealt with have brought up the "what are we" way to fast.
Especially ones I was just sleeping with and had never taken on a date.

@Amethyst and @wickedsm . Helplease me understand my sisters.

 

[Jean Jacket]

Queen's Gambit.....

 

[Neuromancer]

Queen's Gambit.....

Pawn to d5

 

[The Nigerian]

Why does this happen? I feel like a number of females I've dealt with have brought up the "what are we" way to fast.
Especially ones I was just sleeping with and had never taken on a date.

@Amethyst and @wickedsm . Helplease me understand my sisters.

Biology.

Women are biologically incentivised to monopolize a man's energy/time/affection.

 

[Taadow]

status.

 

[InDePickWest]

WHOOA. 2 seconds before I read this thread my roommates friend just asked this guy on the phone "What are we?". Lol. Shes being coached by us.

I think its cuz women have to be careful. You nikkas can just fukk and leave cuz ya'll dont have to wordy about

1. Ruined Rep
2. Unwanted Pregnancy
3. Your Safety

when dealing with random women. We do. Plus if she wants kids, she gotta find a suitable mate. Instead of "What are we?..bytches should just start asking nikkas up front if they gone keep it real or play fukkboy games. If he's real, he'll let ya know what he wants, you take that and proceed accordingly. This why I'm bout to tell this bish she sound desperate and she should have 5-9 nikkas on her line at all times in case one falls off until she finds that one.

 

[Trapperman Dave]

She needs to know so she can priotize your dikk. Good sex= she sticks around regardless of label, Bad sex= she looks for guy with good sex

 

[InDePickWest]

Biology.

Women are biologically incentivised to monopolize a man's energy/time/affection.

You forgot the most important...















His money

 

[wooled1]

I've dealt with this so many times. The key is to either ask her why (99% of the time it's a complete bullshyt answer and I automatically shut her the fukk down) or you can just tell her straight up tell her what it's all about. The key is to be non-chalant about it the entire time, women pick up on that shyt a lot and if you're missing an ounce of confidence in your voice, she'll probably cuss you out if you say some dumb shyt. This is an art form, breh it takes pracitce.

 

[VegasCAC]

Security. They want to make sure you're worth the investment

 

[VegasCAC]

I've dealt with this so many times. The key is to either ask her why (99% of the time it's a complete bullshyt answer and I automatically shut her the fukk down) or you can just tell her straight up tell her what it's all about. The key is to be non-chalant about it the entire time, women pick up on that shyt a lot and if you're missing an ounce of confidence in your voice, she'll probably cuss you out if you say some dumb shyt. This is an art form, breh it takes pracitce.

I just give her the

"Why does it matter? If we're feeling each other what does a label even mean? Isn't what we have good? A label would just mess what we have up. And I like what we have bae"

 

[Penny 95]

Because they want to know the status of the friendship/relationship before they become emotionally invested in you. Emotional investment in someone is draining and should be done sparingly.

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

Why does this happen? I feel like a number of females I've dealt with have brought up the "what are we" way to fast.
Especially ones I was just sleeping with and had never taken on a date.

@Amethyst and @wickedsm . Helplease me understand my sisters.

If she has to ask she already lost.

Men are declarative with their intent in a relationship through actions and words.

She's asking because she's insecure and knows that she's moved too quickly.

Unfortunately many women are out here hustling in reverse. They think that they can get a solid commitment even after rushing on intimacy and other things. Some are so thirsty that they are not letting men date them, instead they are getting rode hard and put away wet and wondering why he doesn't call.

A true meaningful relationship is not something that can be rushed but by putting the cart before the horse people are out here getting played

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

If she has to ask she already lost.

Men are declarative with their intent in a relationship through actions and words.

She's asking because she's insecure and knows that she's moved too quickly.

Unfortunately many women are out here hustling in reverse. They think that they can get a solid commitment even after rushing on intimacy and other things. Some are so thirsty that they are not letting men date them, instead they are getting rode hard and put away wet and wondering why he doesn't call.

A true meaningful relationship is not something that can be rushed but by putting the cart before the horse people are out here getting played

Waiting too long though

 

[Neuromancer]

WHOOA. 2 seconds before I read this thread my roommates friend just asked this guy on the phone "What are we?". Lol. Shes being coached by us.

I think its cuz women have to be careful. You nikkas can just fukk and leave cuz ya'll dont have to wordy about

1. Ruined Rep
2. Unwanted Pregnancy
3. Your Safety

when dealing with random women. We do. Plus if she wants kids, she gotta find a suitable mate. Instead of "What are we?..bytches should just start asking nikkas up front if they gone keep it real or play fukkboy games. If he's real, he'll let ya know what he wants, you take that and proceed accordingly. This why I'm bout to tell this bish she sound desperate and she should have 5-9 nikkas on her line at all times in case one falls off until she finds that one.

What if you're upfront from gate and she still asks?

Don't women usually have at least 3 guys on the line at one time? I mean why else would we tell them I don't want shyt but sex early on?