Why do some women choose to be knocked up by deadbeat's?

Chris.B

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Just found out my boy sister has been knocked up again by her baby daddy.

He has no job (a felon)
He is on probation for laying the smackdown on his previous ex. Reason why he can't get a job.

Stays home all day and smoke weed 24/7 and this b!tch has made him knock her up AGAIN?:snoop:

I can understand popping babies for a man who has something going on in his life but what's the point of having all these kids when you cannot even support your fukking self!!! :what:

I got word he may have violated his parole on some bullshyt yesterday :upsetfavre:
And oh he has 2 other kids with 2 different baby moms :snoop:

I'm not making this up...this is real life sh!t folks!!!
 

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shyt happens everyday B. A lot of women never have their priorities right cuz the society we live in doesn't punish them enuff for making bad decisions. I mean if she has more kids than she can care for and the baby daddy doesn't take care of them EHHH so what, EBT, WIC, WELFARE and Gov't Assistance programs will raise the child and she won't be responsible for paying shyt the burden falls back on the child's father financially while she can live the life of the queen squeezing out more. You know if you put these women in countries without gov't assistance they would magically stop having children.
 

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yeah i noticed this weekend walking around the mall a lot of women were pushing strollers with some shyt bum attached to them. a ton of girls i went to school with got knocked up by some dink and they are all alone with a kid and they are out on the dating scene agian like anyone is actually gonna pick them up
 

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yeah i noticed this weekend walking around the mall a lot of women were pushing strollers with some shyt bum attached to them. a ton of girls i went to school with got knocked up by some dink and they are all alone with a kid and they are out on the dating scene agian like anyone is actually gonna pick them up

I actually went on a date with a single mom about 2 years ago.

Once I found out she had a kid, she could tell a n!gga wanted to bail on her :bryan:
 

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Because for the most part, they don't understand that it is them that keeps attracting no good men to themselves. You get what you deserve, I truly believe in that saying. Mess with a no good nikka, chances are, you are a no good bytch, thems the breaks.

This. :yeshrug:

I think a lot of people don't realize that most women that are with deadbeat/aint shyt dudes are with their equal. Not everyone deserves better.
 

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For the most part..Women cannot see down the road. They live in the moment. A lot of them don't learn until they are 30+ with kids, baggage and fading looks. Then they will give the good guy a shot, when its too late.

And these deadbeats who knock them up on parole and no job or prospects aren't the same way? :snoop:
 

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Because it's exciting. Hey I can understand why being with those men is exciting. What I don't understand is why they keep having babies with them. I guess bytches are just stupid.
 

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Deadbeats usually stay deadbeats. Thing is tho, the deadbeats aren't the ones choosing to have the baby.

Nothing prevents those men from using protection or stop fukking ratchet females.

But this is why I support contraception subsidies on both ends, men and women.

You can't stop stupid/broke-ass people from having sex, but you can do your best to prevent them from continuing to breed more deadbeats into society.

But I'm also pro-choice... lot of these communities don't believe in abortions and then they don't have access to or don't learn how to use contraceptives properly and end up with more kids.

They are all equal opportunity losers. Don't understand just blaming the woman in this situation. Nothing stopping both parties from acting like responsible parts of society.
 

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This. :yeshrug:

I think a lot of people don't realize that most women that are with deadbeat/aint shyt dudes are with their equal. Not everyone deserves better.

Truth. A lot of times I feel like men mistake a good looking woman for a good woman.

One of my best male friends stays pining about the whole women want bad boys thing, but when I look at the caliber of women he's sour about not getting...:what:
 
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