Why do men shame women for being ho's?

[Un-AmericanDreamer]

When that's the very thing many of us purposefully seek out from the opposite sex? Like dudes require their girlfriends to do some of the stuff they see in porn and base their sex lives on it. Then call other women who do similar stuff like that with their boyfriends hos. Take Azelia banks for example, she may or may not have taken a picture winking with some guys dikk in her hand who was presumably her boyfriend at the time. Now, how does that make her a ho exactly? A ho to me has always been someone who uses sex to get over on men. People confuse ho for kinky. Pleasuring your boyfriend does not make a ho. People need to stop fronting like they don't got no sexual skeletons, you know what that say about people who throw stones . I can't stand dudes who put women on blast for doing some shyt she was suppose to do.

I can understand not wanting to marry carrine stefans, from a mans point of view not wifing a woman with an abnormal sexual record makes sense, you can miss me with all this love prevails bullshyt. You should marry someone who you don't have to worry about.
What I don't get is men shaming women for doing things they wanted from women.
Are men afraid of women sexuality? Is this some sort of pre- madonna complex? Where men worships the idealized woman as opposed to the one they married?

 

[acri1]

IMO, women do this to each other much more than men do.

 

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[ugksam]

its funny cause its the girls that are slutty are the ones that always talk about how much they hate sluts

 

[filial_piety]

IMO, women do this to each other much more than men do.

I came into the say the same thing...

Men only seem to shame women for being hoes if it's their women that's being the ho....or someone who is a close relative.

Outside of that most men don't care and will dap them for it.

 

[QuintessentialBM]

Let em ho.. They fought hard for that right.

 

[Red Maverick II]

Because they wouldn't let them hit

 

[yeahisaidit]

Because some men tend to put women on pedestals, expecting them to be their version of perfect instead of seeing that women are just human, like men. To be fair, some women do this too.

 

[Un-AmericanDreamer]

IMO, women do this to each other much more than men do.

Still that doesn't make it right imo. I understand how shaming works but it seems like men are mostly encouraging it in some instances(where there is personal gain), while at the same time shunning it in others(where there is no personal gain). I don't mind ho's, I just wish people were responsible about it.

 

[Aizen]

"Ho shaming" depends on the guy and the circumstance. Some people shame women due to wanting to control them, stick it to them and all that. Other guys just genuinely dislike ho behavior and call it out whenever they see it.

 

[Un-AmericanDreamer]

its funny cause its the girls that are slutty are the ones that always talk about how much they hate sluts

I think it's more like they trying to boost they stock by portraying themselves as a good girl like "nice guys" do but what they don't realize is, is that men actually like ho's. Not like little Kim where it's obvious but more like Kim Kardasian. Men want a presentable ho.

 

[ugksam]

I think it's more like they trying to boost they stock by portraying themselves as a good girl like "nice guys" do but what they don't realize is, is that men actually like ho's. Not like little Kim where it's obvious but more like Kim Kardasian. Men want a presentable ho.

i just what a ho that is also a maid