Why Can't Grown Adults Be Upfront With Their Intentions From The Start?

[Ricky Church]

this was inspired by the "Cac Friendzoned On The Stoop" thread.

this would've never happened to a smart dude who was clear with his intentions before he took this bytch out and paid out his pocket for a dead-end evening.

this goes for you ladies too, quit playing games like you 12 and be straight up with yours.

I went out with this bytch a few years ago that was talking up a whole lotta mess about "she ain't been with a dude in a long time and she just wanna have some random sexy fun."

so I picked her up and we went out for food cause she wanted to hit up this new restaurant around her way, we get there and through normal dinner convo, her whole game changed, talking about she don't wanna move too fast and she wants to be appreciated and start a relationship.

now if the bytch told me she wanted a relationship instead of telling me she wanted to fool around I never woulda wasted my time, but she didn't, so I left her ass there.

I straight up asked her "am I gonna smash tonight?" and again, she said she wanted something more. so I got up, excused myself in a normal calm manner, got in my car and left.
she sent me at least 45 texts after that, all of which I never responded...

 

[Larry Lobster]

bytches dont wanna be seen as hoes, but we all know they are, so, since i aint got time for that bullshyt im on that rape trill shyt

 

[Ricky Church]

"aye bytch, you want me to rape you on some trill shyt?"

 

[Rawtid]

She had it coming. I believed she legitimately liked you, knew that the only way she could see you is if she agreed to have sex and make a last ditch effort to strong arm you into a relationship.

 

[Larry Lobster]

"aye bytch, you want me to rape you on some trill shyt?"

"Yea papi come here and show me what it is "

 

[Ricky Church]

"aye bytch, you want me to rape you on some trill shyt?"

"Yea papi come here and show me what it is "

aight I'm done

 

[Ricky Church]

She had it coming. I believed she legitimately liked you, knew that the only way she could see you is if she agreed to have sex and make a last ditch effort to strong arm you into a relationship.

I believed she did too, she was on my Johnson for months but I kept putting her to the side.

I think the only way she thought I'd pay her attention is saying she wanted to fukk. but she fukked herself cause I left her ass stranded.

*edit*

 

[Rawtid]

I believed she did too, she was on my Johnson for months but I kept putting her to the side.

I think the only way she thought I'd pay her attention is saying she wanted to fukk. but she fukked herself cause I left her ass stranded.

*edit*

Joking(I hope) about rape is wack. Even in air quotes.

 

[MikelArteta]

because if a woman likes you in her mind she htinks if she sleeps with you early she will be jumpoff

possibly

 

[Ricky Church]

Joking(I hope) about rape is wack. Even in air quotes.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

We've been socially conditioned to "game" each other as much as possible, playing on each others trust as if it were reckless naivete rather than building solid relationships. People often see relationships like this as a way to "score" somehow anything from a free meal, to sex, to money, to anything else in between rather than healthily cultivate lasting relationships with people that they might really end up appreciating one day. The problem is that this is seen is the norm and people don't really do much about it. That's why you have to be careful who you really associate with. You have to make sure that they're on a more mature level before you decide to take them out.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

this was inspired by the "Cac Friendzoned On The Stoop" thread.

this would've never happened to a smart dude who was clear with his intentions before he took this bytch out and paid out his pocket for a dead-end evening.

this goes for you ladies too, quit playing games like you 12 and be straight up with yours.

What was she saying

 

[Ricky Church]

We've been socially conditioned to "game" each other as much as possible, playing on each others trust as if it were reckless naivete rather than building solid relationships. People often see relationships like this as a way to "score" somehow anything from a free meal, to sex, to money, to anything else in between rather than healthily cultivate lasting relationships with people that they might really end up appreciating one day. The problem is that this is seen is the norm and people don't really do much about it. That's why you have to be careful who you really associate with. You have to make sure that they're on a more mature level before you decide to take them out.

I won't even lie breh, I'm guilty of doing this shyt (going out with a chick for a free meal, with no intentions of anything further...yes I put bytches in the friendzone before)

but this is when I was 17, 18, 19, 20 years old. when I was immature.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

I won't even lie breh, I'm guilty of doing this shyt (going out with a chick for a free meal, with no intentions of anything further...yes I put bytches in the friendzone before)

but this is when I was 17, 18, 19, 20 years old. when I was immature.

True, but some people just kinda get off that maturity train at varying points in life. I've met plenty of dudes in their 50's who I would never dream of asking for life advice from. I've also met really exceptionally mature young people that blew my mind regarding their understanding of the way the world works. That's why it's so frustrating that so many young women are so damn sexy but so damn immature to put up with in a relationship context.

 

[Danny Up]

this was inspired by the "Cac Friendzoned On The Stoop" thread.

this would've never happened to a smart dude who was clear with his intentions before he took this bytch out and paid out his pocket for a dead-end evening.

this goes for you ladies too, quit playing games like you 12 and be straight up with yours.

Say what? I'm not following.