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I fukkikg hate advice/posts like these

It's such a bullshyt way to make people feel better. If a person wants something, what's the point in telling him "it's not that great"?

Do you think he's stupid?
"you dont really need that puzzy, do you?" :troll:
 

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Op, take up a physical/aggressive activity like martial arts (jiu jutsu, karate, boxing, muay thai). And lift weights, high protein, and sleep.

Doing that will build confidence, and will make you feel more comfortable asserting yourself and taking up space and feeling comfortable. That testosterone boost will ooze off of you, literally.

This is huge, because chicks will sense that in you. Your body language will be different. Your posture will be better, your smell will be better, face, voice, etc. You'll speak louder, your voice will be smoother, no shaking, etc.

You see op, sex appeal is basically hormones + confidence. Women sex appeal is their femininity, with some confidence/flirting.

Same here. Your masculinity and confidence needs to be apparent. When a bytch sees broad shoulders and muscle sticking out in your shirts, AND sees a confident walk with good posture, and you talk slowly (because you feel confident in yourself), she'll be attracted.
 

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@2stainz I’m a virgin too due to anxiety and self confidence problems because of the abuse I suffer from my father. Recently I decided to join some online dating sites and attend some meetup groups so I can try to lose it. Maybe you should give those a try as well. Good luck to you breh and don’t let some of these posters discourage you.
ayo bro fr. im gonna give u something that helped me.

go see a therapist and a psychologist. Anxiety and depression are great hinderances in building relationships and it will make u overthink.

also the only way to get better with women is interacting with them and I mean them all. learn that women are just like men. They are no different, you are just attracted to them and you desire them, which causes you to overthink in the moment because you are so invested in the outcome. You have to put that time in being around women and not overthinking shyt. Just go with the flaw and interact with them like u would a man. Then learn how to flirt and be seductive. You do this by playing off the convo and making playful comments. if the girl is interested she will play along and if not she will ignore it. Take the signs and move on, But the only way out of this is by doing it. Dating apps are cool but you need that in person face to face time.
Learn how women are too and don't take their games personal, remember the win for a man is p*ssy that's the goal always remember that. Don't worry about love or a girlfriend at all. Don't worry about love. Your goal is to talk and interact with as many women u find attractive as possible. Take everything that comes with it. You have to learn to cut that negative as voice in ur head off, u do this by bein in the moment. Dont think just react. eventually u will get past the discomfort and u will less anxious around women.
 

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I fukkikg hate advice/posts like these

It's such a bullshyt way to make people feel better. If a person wants something, what's the point in telling him "it's not that great"?

Do you think he's stupid?
Man calm your ass down dude it ain't that serious. If YOU put p*ssy on a pedestal don't be mad that someone else doesn't. What I'm saying is p*ssy is great but the shyt ain't essential like water, shelter, etc. You really only need p*ssy to reproduce. I was basically telling OP that instead goin off and doin some wild shyt to be grateful for what he does have and the things that we may all take for granted. And if you ain't down with that then....who gives a fukk :yeshrug:
 

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Op, take up a physical/aggressive activity like martial arts (jiu jutsu, karate, boxing, muay thai). And lift weights, high protein, and sleep.

Doing that will build confidence, and will make you feel more comfortable asserting yourself and taking up space and feeling comfortable. That testosterone boost will ooze off of you, literally.

This is huge, because chicks will sense that in you. Your body language will be different. Your posture will be better, your smell will be better, face, voice, etc. You'll speak louder, your voice will be smoother, no shaking, etc.

You see op, sex appeal is basically hormones + confidence. Women sex appeal is their femininity, with some confidence/flirting.

Same here. Your masculinity and confidence needs to be apparent. When a bytch sees broad shoulders and muscle sticking out in your shirts, AND sees a confident walk with good posture, and you talk slowly (because you feel confident in yourself), she'll be attracted.

Either this, or just stick a roll of socks down the front of your pants
 

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Man calm your ass down dude it ain't that serious. If YOU put p*ssy on a pedestal don't be mad that someone else doesn't. What I'm saying is p*ssy is great but the shyt ain't essential like water, shelter, etc. You really only need p*ssy to reproduce. I was basically telling OP that instead goin off and doin some wild shyt to be grateful for what he does have and the things that we may all take for granted. And if you ain't down with that then....who gives a fukk :yeshrug:

"Just be grateful for what you have"

This is the shyt I'm talking about. A person is asking for advice on how to obtain something that he wants, and that many people his age have had years ago.

And your response is to tell him that what he wants isn't that great (who are you to decide that for him?), and that he should be "grateful" for what he has (which is stupid because he's just asking how to get a girlfriend, and here you are randomly making this shyt more complicated than it is.)

I'm upset not because I "put p*ssy on a pedestal", but because I hate advice like this. I hate how common it is. Its pointless and holds people back.
 

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"Just be grateful for what you have"

This is the shyt I'm talking about. A person is asking for advice on how to obtain something that he wants, and that many people his age have had years ago.

And your response is to tell him that what he wants isn't that great (who are you to decide that for him?), and that he should be "grateful" for what he has (which is stupid because he's just asking how to get a girlfriend, and here you are randomly making this shyt more complicated than it is.)

I'm upset not because I "put p*ssy on a pedestal", but because I hate advice like this. I hate how common it is. Its pointless and holds people back.
I didn't see him ask for no advice I just saw that he said he was a virgin at 30 years old. fukk you mad at me for saying "p*ssy ain't the end all be all. Don't let it get you down/depressed (and go Elliot Wilson or start rapin chicks) We livin let's cherish life" :gucci: You weird dude if he wanted p*ssy that bad he could buy it but even HE said he ain't even trippin on it at this point. Its not rocket science,foolio
 
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