Who on the Coli has been a virgin the longest? (30yrs for me) [UPDATE: now ̶3̶̶̶3̶̶̶ ̶3̶4̶ ̶3̶5̶ ̶ 3̶6̶ 3̶7̶ 3̶̶̶8̶ ̶3̶9̶ 40]

[2stainz]

I'm 18 and one. Could've lost mine when I was 13, 15 and 18, but either someone came in the room or the girl pussied out

Edit: And this is coming from an average looking guy who just stays in the house and plays video games all day. There's women out there for even the most ass-faced of guys.

You must be broke and pushing the cartons at CVS, OP

Dapped and repped

I think the the fact that I'm a decent looking dude too only exacerbates this shyt

So youre by choice then? ....Cant relate

 

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you're out socializing at all, drinkin at all

 

[Vandelay]

This is the main reason I keep it to myself as well. Not because I'm embarrassed but because when I do tell people they're shocked and then begin to treat me like a science project and they won't leave me alone.


I think the the fact that I'm a decent looking dude too only exacerbates this shyt

I lost my virginity a month before my 18th birthday, and I was socially awkward many years afterwards, many people thought something was wrong with me. The only thing that was wrong with me was I wasn't confident in myself. But perception is reality and in this sex obsessed culture, you will be ostracized by 99 out of 100 people. I had people who thought I was gay, thought I only liked white women, or foreign women...no I like women. But I wasnt confident in who I was, and women can smell that when you're not confident and it's off-putting.

You can go against the grain, and you may eventually win in your own way. But it'll take a lot longer. If you're content with that, fine. But I don't think this thread was made for that reason.

 

[AAKing23]

Not even hatin but how does this happen?

I'm no pimp but I mean if you're out socializing at all, drinkin at all, some slore gonna hop on sooner or later.

Grow up sheltered with a reserved/passive nature and be a borderline recluse like me

 

[Hard Times Nakamura]

Its not for lack of trying, maybe im looking in the wrong places

if you mean pros...im not about that life, my cous got caught with an escort recently. shyt was a family embarrassment

So break it down. Surely there were some things he could have done to be more careful. Like I said it's legal in many other countries and your family won't be the wiser if that's what you're concerned about.

You can go against the grain

This...My entire life is against the typical Black Male path and I'm doing very well relative to most Brothers.

Don't let anyone define your path. If you really want to fukk a (semi-decent) Woman you'll find a way.

 

[AAKing23]

Dapped and repped

So youre by choice then? ....Cant relate

Yeah I'm by choice but it doesn't matter because people aren't gonna believe that anyway

 

[1thouwow]

Y'all proud of not getting p*ssy?

 

[International Playa]

Most people missing the fact OP is 5'3 n claims to be ugly.

Not saying he cant get ass but he has to work harder to get ass.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I'm currently in month drought

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I'm currently in month drought

 

[AquaCityBoy]

i work near op so i've seen him many times. he is ugly as fukk, like a greek mythology monster. this one time, he had ordered a package from amazon, and when they brought it, the dude seen op's face and refused to give it to him. like, he refused to give him his own package bc of how ugly he was. that's what ya'll are not understanding about this thread.

. People don't give ugly people shyt that they paid for?

 

[MoroccanBoy]

I lost it when I was 21 last year. Literally fukked a couple of times and went back to my life. I've got my own personal issues and life to sort out. getting p*ssy did nothing for me. The only reason I fukked was to get that virgin label off me. I still don't give a fukk about p*ssy. But I have mental health problems that are more important to deal with right now than anything else in life.

 

[Lootpack]

i work near op so i've seen him many times. he is ugly as fukk, like a greek mythology monster. this one time, he had ordered a package from amazon, and when they brought it, the dude seen op's face and refused to give it to him. like, he refused to give him his own package bc of how ugly he was. that's what ya'll are not understanding about this thread.

 

[CarbonBraddock]

. People don't give ugly people shyt that they paid for?

if u seen this dude, u wouldn't want him gettin packages either. it's just words till you experience it breh.

 

[YaThreadFloppedB!]

strength had nothing to do with it my g. Allah blessed me a face that looks like its been in the microwave for too long.

plus a nicca is part of #smallmeatgang....AND you know how we do