Men and I say this cause the vast majority of women reject tons of men from 16 until about 30 when they finally get desperate and wonder if they fucced up. Any woman can get a good catch if they really wanted and played the game smart.
From my observation, men's value is based the most on their financial status and in this day and age, men are making less, our unemployment is higher. Women make their own money now, so many men are settling just to have a woman to come home to and fucc. Many of the dimes (the women men really want) are only going for the top ballers. This is why going overseas is a great option for many men today who still want to wife up dimes making an average salary.
I see the women my brothas are marrying and I'm like
"Yea man I can tell she a good woman"