I have been with this man for a fourteen months. I have sacrificed a lot by being with him. I told myself I would never date a man with kids and he has two. He had just came from a 7 year relationship with his children's mother.
We both agreed that he would see other women but I would not. I just asked that he tells me nothing about it.
When his baby mama left, his life fell apart. She took a lot and he went bankrupt. So I came around and I helped him as much as I could. I would pay for dates and trips, I even gave him money to buy a couch since baby mama took his when she left.
On my birthday trip to Costa Rica (which I paid for), he showed me a picture of a beautiful girl and said he was seeing her (which I agreed too). He has been mad at me because I keep talking to my ex boyfriends and that makes him uncomfortable. I was upset that he showed me this girl on my birthday trip. I felt he did it to get back at me for everything.
Months went pass and we had major blow ups because someone had been playing on our phones implying that I have been sleeping with other men which isn't true. We figured it was his baby mama because she never liked our relationship. The final straw was when someone was texting him pretending to be my ex boyfriend's new girlfriend saying she found my nudes on my ex boyfriend's phone (which isn't true). My boyfriend blew up, made me pack my things (I don't live with him but I leave my stuff there for the weekend) and broke up with me.
After calming him down, we agreed that we would see each other but not as often. He said I couldn't get all his weekends and I couldn't leave my stuff at his house.
We had planned a trip to Toronto. I would meet him in Detroit, we would rent a car and drive to Canada. During the drive, his phone was blowing up. He said it was the other girl he was seeing. I told him to pick it up.
They argued right in front of me for a couple minutes until he handed me the phone.
Immediately the girl started telling me humiliating things that he had told her. About my body odor, my weight and how I was not too attractive to him. I handled it with class and dignity but my world was crashing down in front of me.
For the remainder of the trip, I had to deal with this girl calling and my boyfriend trying to calm her down.
Anyways I told him to give her closure when we came home and he said when he saw her they had sex which hurt my soul.
I told him to get rid of her or me and he said that wasn't fair because I kept my ex boyfriend around.
I told him I was going to download Tinder and start dating other men and that was our agreement.
Now I'm sitting here hurt because he is the only guy who took me seriously and seeing the prospects on Tinder has me discouraged.
What should I do?
My man's side chick and I spoke on the phone and what she told me humiliated me!!