When is the right time to make a move on this chick? :lupe:

[Buggsy Mogues]

I'm going out for drinks Saturday with this girl at a job I just started. I've only worked with her less than a month but she seems cool. She's not a dime by any means, but a solid 7.. definitely fukkable. Very cute. (no pics..The Coli is worldwide i dont need that shyt getting traced back to me).

But I'm worried bout this one cause we literally have to work together, like, 10 feet from each other, and work together on a lot of different projects.

Anyway we get along well.. she's into sports so we talk basketball a lot. It's hard to tell if she's being flirty or not..this isn't really a "date", the idea of going out came about organically cause we tease each other about who can outdrink the other one. She always talks about the wild shyt she be doing during the weekends. So we decided we should go out drinking..alone..not inviting anyone else from work..

If I fukk this up it could create awkward situation at work and I just barely starting this job. I can't imagine why she'd want to go out for drinks with a dude if she wasn't feeling me. But sometimes I get a "one of the guys" vibe from her. She seems to have a decent amount of male friends judging by her Facebook. We've gone out to lunch during work a few times and she has no problem pigging out in front of me. shyt she already burped in front of me.. so I don't know what to make of this bytch. I'm just worried if its worth the risk to try to make a move. I kinda wanna see how she act toward me when she got a few drinks in her.

I don't expect anyone to have any answers, but any advice is welcome. I'm really just using this post to vent

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

You sounding extremely nervous over a girl that's barely a 7

???

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

When she's sleeping.

 

[Buggsy Mogues]

You sounding extremely nervous over a girl that's barely a 7

???

Basically the tl;dr version is -- I wanna smash but i'm nervous about the work implications if she's not interested.

I'm downplaying her looks cause I dont be one of them coli nikkas that act like he only pull dimes. She fine, she's not a 10 but she fine. I think any dude would go out of his way to try to get with her.

 

[Fmju]

You kinda answered your own question breh. Just wait till y'all hangout then judge the situation by how she's acting. Be you and if she wanna fukk then you'll know. If she just one of the guys you'll know. It's easy to go with the don't shyt where you eat but if y'all mature about it it could work out.

 

[Big Blue]

Dont do it breh. If you guys fukk, that shyt can be catastrophic

 

[bl2k8]

Idk breh I was in the same situation, me and this girl worked together 40
Hours a week and sat across from eachother and I chose not to make a move. I regret it, but in the long run I know it saved me hella drama.

 

[YouLoveMe]

I'm going out for drinks Saturday with this girl at a job I just started. I've only worked with her less than a month but she seems cool. She's not a dime by any means, but a solid 7.. definitely fukkable. Very cute. (no pics..The Coli is worldwide i dont need that shyt getting traced back to me).

But I'm worried bout this one cause we literally have to work together, like, 10 feet from each other, and work together on a lot of different projects.

Anyway we get along well.. she's into sports so we talk basketball a lot. It's hard to tell if she's being flirty or not..this isn't really a "date", the idea of going out came about organically cause we tease each other about who can outdrink the other one. She always talks about the wild shyt she be doing during the weekends. So we decided we should go out drinking..alone..not inviting anyone else from work..

If I fukk this up it could create awkward situation at work and I just barely starting this job. I can't imagine why she'd want to go out for drinks with a dude if she wasn't feeling me. But sometimes I get a "one of the guys" vibe from her. She seems to have a decent amount of male friends judging by her Facebook. We've gone out to lunch during work a few times and she has no problem pigging out in front of me. shyt she already burped in front of me.. so I don't know what to make of this bytch. I'm just worried if its worth the risk to try to make a move. I kinda wanna see how she act toward me when she got a few drinks in her.

I don't expect anyone to have any answers, but any advice is welcome. I'm really just using this post to vent

Dude

 

[Taadow]

I'm going out for drinks Saturday with this girl at a job I just started.

*stopped here*

AWWWWWWWWWWWW mayne. When will you niccas learn??

 

[Xtraz2]

When she's sleeping.

 

[Buggsy Mogues]

Idk breh I was in the same situation, me and this girl worked together 40
Hours a week and sat across from eachother and I chose not to make a move. I regret it, but in the long run I know it saved me hella drama.

why you think it would have been drama if you smashed?

 

[Buggsy Mogues]

*stopped here*

AWWWWWWWWWWWW mayne. When will you niccas learn??

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Basically the tl;dr version is -- I wanna smash but i'm nervous about the work implications if she's not interested.

I'm downplaying her looks cause I dont be one of them coli nikkas that act like he only pull dimes. She fine, she's not a 10 but she fine. I think any dude would go out of his way to try to get with her.

go ahead and smaSh
And dont stay at the same bar location

 

[L&HH]

To be honest all that dont fukk your coworkers shyt nikkas on here be saying man, fukk all dat. Every situation is different, you live and you learn nikka. If you wanna go at her, make your move and see what happens. When most ppl look back on shyt they regret the shyt they didnt do over the shyt they did.

 

[bl2k8]

why you think it would have been drama if you smashed?

Cause she love attention and dudes doin all kinda shyt like bringing her flowers and coffee every morning. One time we had a team breakfast and my co-worker asked me what I was doin that weekend and she jokingly starts talkin like a 14 year old girl and is like "bl2k8 is coming to myyyyy house this weekend" and starts giggling and I'm just like I was supposed to go over there tho I never did