When did you realize and accept you're just a PLAYA and not meant to be committed?

[Stuntone]

This has been a hard pill for me to swallow, but I just down it with some water. I was just talking my bf (a female) she keeps it real with me. She knows I've been pulling some really nice chicks the last few years. Wife types, but I usually find another that looks better or feel like that's better for me. My attitude has gotten so shytty with women and they just seem to like me more. Mixed in with my logical views of marriage and divorce. I don't think I'll ever slow down. All of my married coworkers see me wolfing on these girls at work and they wish they lived the life I live. The hoez, clothes and cars. On top of that, I'm in the DC area. So many women. So many! And if you're decent looking with a decent lifestyle, you're in very high demand amongst the professional sisters. And I don't want to have a family here anyways, I'm a southern boy and I want my kids to grow up near my relatives.

With that said, knowing i don't want to be serious. What am I suppose to do, not date and get it in? A wolf must eat.

 

[L@CaT]

This has been a hard pill for me to swallow, but I just down it with some water. I was just talking my bf (a female) she keeps it real with me. She knows I've been pulling some really nice chicks the last few years. Wife types, but I usually find another that looks better or feel like that's better for me. My attitude has gotten so shytty with women and they just seem to like me more. Mixed in with my logical views of marriage and divorce. I don't think I'll ever slow down. All of my married coworkers see me wolfing on these girls at work and they wish they lived the life I live. The hoez, clothes and cars. On top of that, I'm in the DC area. So many women. So many! And if you're decent looking with a decent lifestyle, you're in very high demand amongst the professional sisters. And I don't want to have a family here anyways, I'm a southern boy and I want my kids to grow up near my relatives.

With that said, knowing i don't want to be serious. What am I suppose to do, not date and get it in? A wolf must eat.

Im Kinda of in the same Boat as you.. Im pretty Jaded with Relationships in general

Not to say relationships are a bad thing.. I just find it harder and harder to stay interested as I get Older..

As im getting older, I def have a desire to start a family and such.. But.... After being with a girl for a few weeks/months I tend to lose interest and stop caring


I try not to be a dikk about it though.. If I lose interest and Girl is really feeling me, Ill start doing sh1t so she breaks up with me, so no really gets hurt in the process


I feel like every Girl I come across these days want Serious Commited Relationships.. at least the Girls Closer to my Age..

Probably why Ive been sticking to younger girls lately


My Advice: Be you, Be Free, be honest about everything.. I find you can still bag a ton of chicks but still be honest about not wanting a serious/commited relationship

That way if they trip later down the road you can always give them the I already told you from the get go

 

[Art Barr]

This has been a hard pill for me to swallow, but I just down it with some water. I was just talking my bf (a female) she keeps it real with me. She knows I've been pulling some really nice chicks the last few years. Wife types, but I usually find another that looks better or feel like that's better for me. My attitude has gotten so shytty with women and they just seem to like me more. Mixed in with my logical views of marriage and divorce. I don't think I'll ever slow down. All of my married coworkers see me wolfing on these girls at work and they wish they lived the life I live. The hoez, clothes and cars. On top of that, I'm in the DC area. So many women. So many! And if you're decent looking with a decent lifestyle, you're in very high demand amongst the professional sisters. And I don't want to have a family here anyways, I'm a southern boy and I want my kids to grow up near my relatives.

With that said, knowing i don't want to be serious. What am I suppose to do, not date and get it in? A wolf must eat.

Two things:

It is your locale being abundant with some of the most forward women in America.
Which are b-more, dc women.
Plus the fact you have cheater swag.

If you were in a more realistic market, when it came to black women
It would be a different story.


Art Barr