What's with all the self loathing on this sub forum

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For a sub forum with such a young demographic, this place is filled with alot of self loathing black people. It's like some of these dudes were born under Jim Crow.

We all joke about race and i have made some :mjpls: comments in jest, but it just seems that racial insecurities seem to drive alot of threads in this place. I spend most of my time in the Coli or HL, but lately i have had a lot of free time at work and I have been spending time in TLR. I noticed a trend in this sub forum. It usually manifests itself in certain thread themes:

1. Worship of white women - Some of ya'll act like white women are some sort of pristine, alien race, demi-goddess that can do no wrong and are worthy of worship. When the truth is if you spend time around enough white women, you will understand that bell curve of ratchet behavior is similar across all races. Just look at the divorce rate for white women.

2. Bashing of Black Women - I understand the age old game of battle of the sexes and sometimes it makes for some funny threads. But TLR take it too far in their bashing of black women. I wonder how many Country music sites are bashing white women and worshiping black women.

3. Guilty By Association - Some of you feel the need to post about the so-called ratchet behavior of other black people in public and how it embarrassed you and your hope that white people watching don't lump you in with "those" black people. The fact is you are already lumped into that category.

4. Skin Complexion Wars - Both Sides are insecure about their complexion and so they take it out on people with different complexions. I thought this died in the 80s.
 

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filled with alot of self loathing black people.
Black people in America dont understand nor appreciate the concept of being humble.

The pop culture encourages them to be confident however confidence isnt something one should just gain without merit. YOu need to HAVE something to be confident about first of all. But too often we see people tat are extremely confident without any substance/success to base it upon. Second, you need to be confident without being over-confident. This pop culture encourages people to not only be over-confident but also under-estimate others to a certain extreme which often leaves the over-confident person vulnerable.

I understand you need to BELIEVE in yourself in order to achieve things sometimes but some take that sh!t to a point where the word "extreme" cant even come close to describing them. I believe it comes from portrayal of actors and entertainers in the media.
 

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Whats going on

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you should have seen how dudes where defending Louis CK to the death, so sad.
 

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The people in this sub forum are mostly miserable and anti-social
I dont think so. I think they just live in very small worlds. By that I mean they only know and see what is in their tiny little neighborhoods/city. The lack exposure to the world in general.
 

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I spend most of my time in the Coli or HL, but lately i have had a lot of free time at work and I have been spending time in TLR. I noticed a trend in this sub forum.


if you dont like it so much, why post in this section.
 

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Another theme i noticed is how some black men are elated when they find out a white celebrity is dating a black man or when some white girls make videos about liking black men. I'ts just :snoop:

I see that from black women on here too though.
 

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Yeah, its been slowly getting worse. I thought the Race Track would take some of it away but not really. I really hope that most people are trolling. There is a severe lack of black pride and it seems like most people here tend to lump ALL black people into one big category...
 

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Yeah, its been slowly getting worse. I thought the Race Track would take some of it away but not really. I really hope that most people are trolling. There is a severe lack of black pride and it seems like most people here tend to lump ALL black people into one big category...

Its disgusting.
I agree, blacks in pop culture suck... But a place like this is where we supposed to agree and manifest small movements to eliminate racism.

Nope. We promote it.
 
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