What is with nosey people trying to look at what you're doing on your own phone?

[Dont@Me]

People who insist on asking what you're laughing at when you're browsing thecoli, like this one annoying girl at work. I told her "nothin", to let them know it's none of their business in the most polite way, then she tried to guess what app i was on . "Are you on twitter or something? " that's when I told that bytch that it's obviously private if I don't want to tell her. She then tries to pull some funny shyt and ask if I'm on Grindr. I give that bytch the death stare and don't say a word because she was annoying tf outta me



Swear I just wanna shoot the shyt wit the coli brehs and this annoying country cac wanna be all over my D

And just now I'm at food spot watching a movie while on break at work and I see this random sista trying to look over my shoulder at what I'm watching . I'm a bit embarrassed because I'm watchin Fear (1996) which is a cac movie and it was during the fingering scene, so she should gtfo!


Y'all ever get people around you like this who try to invade your privacy?

 

[Mowgli]

Conversation. Get your head out the sand.

Unless it's a cac then yea, they're just being nosy trying to Guage what you're doing so they can tell someone.

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

Curiosity is a natural human trait, but when it crosses into nosiness, it often stems from insecurity or a need to feel included. She may have felt left out when she noticed you laughing and wanted to know the source to connect or validate her presence.

As far as the Grndr comment, that could just be deflection via humor.
Sometimes, when people feel awkward or rejected (e.g., after being told the content is private), they try to mask it with a joke. However, her choice of joke implying something personal about your life could also indicate a passive-aggressive attempt to regain control of the interaction.

 

[cyndaquil]

She wanna fukk and thinks you gay cuz you didn't invite conversation with her and try to talk back when she addressed you.

Hence asking if you were on grinder.

So we can only logically conclude here that

 

[Dont@Me]

Curiosity is a natural human trait, but when it crosses into nosiness, it often stems from insecurity or a need to feel included. She may have felt left out when she noticed you laughing and wanted to know the source to connect or validate her presence.

As far as the Grndr comment, that could just be deflection via humor.
Sometimes, when people feel awkward or rejected (e.g., after being told the content is private), they try to mask it with a joke. However, her choice of joke implying something personal about your life could also indicate a passive-aggressive attempt to regain control of the interaction.

Sometimes, when people feel awkward or rejected (e.g., after being told the content is private), they try to mask it with a joke. However, her choice of joke—implying something personal about your life—could also indicate a passive-aggressive attempt to regain control of the interaction.

I definitely knew all of this but was just spinning it in a comedic way for coli purposes and she definitely liked me, which made her even more annoying by her constant attempt at trying to get an "in" to me. In real life, I gave her that death stare for about two seconds then fake laughed and went back to my phone.

 

[Dont@Me]

Conversation. Get your head out the sand.

Unless it's a cac then yea, they're just being nosy trying to Guage what you're doing so they can tell someone.

I'm plenty social and am the life of the party. I don't always WANT to be and I don't have to be during those times

 

[Dont@Me]

She wanna fukk and thinks you gay cuz you didn't invite conversation with her and try to talk back when she addressed you.

Hence asking if you were on grinder.

So we can only logically conclude here that

The bytch was mid and whatever ass she had was eclipsed by her insecure and persistently annoying personality

I wanted to swallow a sword by the end of my shift with her! EDIT-

 

[KingTut]

She then tries to pull some funny shyt and ask if I'm on Grindr. I give that bytch the death stare and don't say a word because she was annoying tf outta me

Not convincing.

Prove you weren’t on Grindr right now or neg train

 

[Dont@Me]

Not convincing.

Prove you weren’t on Grindr right now or neg train

Even worse....I was on thecoli