What happens when people like Draya, Tracee Ellis Ross and Shannon Sharpe date each other?

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OGs, school a young man. They're unconventional in their own ways. Do problems arise because they can't get over on men and women in their age range?

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They have to compromise

They’re set in their ways but they have to be open to someone new or it won’t work

And they have to realize that barking orders is a no go zone …

Approach it respectfully and let a respectful friendship then love build …
Essentially. That's why older women and men who make a little bread or established date people younger or not as established. There's no reason to adapt or compromise when you have the leverage in the situation. But dating someone that's on your same playing means that you'll have to bend and adjust to make the situation work. Most people set in their ways refuse to do that. So they choose the most comfortable situation for their ego.
 

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Essentially. That's why older women and men who make a little bread or established date people younger or not as established. There's no reason to adapt or compromise when you have the leverage in the situation. But dating someone that's on your same playing means that you'll have to bend and adjust to make the situation work. Most people set in their ways refuse to do that. So they choose the most comfortable situation for their ego.

That usually seems to backfire for women tho
 

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Men too. Examples Shannon, Diddy...

Yeah it backfires with men when they put too much dip on their chip. Generally speaking the odds of both the woman and man being content with the woman having significantly more money than the man over an extended period is slim.
 

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I think Draya is different. She just wants money. It's vice-versa with Unc and Auntie. Shannon and Tracee been doing what they do too long, and they just aren't gonna settle down. They freaky ahh ninjas, 69 godding. Tracee gonna be on her Cher/Madonna shyt, Shannon gonna be on his Al Pacino shyt.

Kinda sad to be honest. I couldn't be with someone when it's clearly transctional. Even if is just sex.
 

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I think Draya is different. She just wants money. It's vice-versa with Unc and Auntie. Shannon and Tracee been doing what they do too long, and they just aren't gonna settle down. They freaky ahh ninjas, 69 godding. Tracee gonna be on her Cher/Madonna shyt, Shannon gonna be on his Al Pacino shyt.

Kinda sad to be honest. I couldn't be with someone when it's clearly transctional. Even if is just sex.

So basically Unc and Auntie can only be with people who let them have side pieces?
 

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A lot of times they keep it on the DL. They mess around but will never let the general public know.
 

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So basically Unc and Auntie can only be with people who let them have side pieces?
I think they appreciate the novelty of different strange over building something that might force them to occasionally get out of their comfort zone.

We have audio evidence from both.
 
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