What does victory look like? [Ch.1]

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Pt.1 of sexuality. A series which hopes to outline, to the best of my abilities, what cultural, sexual, and relationship victory will look like when we achieve it.
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A lot of brothers thing that because they can screw rainbow p*ssy that racism is no longer a factor. . By default, when you screw with white women in America, you are (most likely)being fetishishized. You become a side venture. Something new, and 'exciting', to a woman who, in America, likely only messes with you to get a sneak sexual release. These women fall into the following categories

1-The sheltered.
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quintessential becky who grows up listening to hip-hop and seeing a visual of a gangster. A visual which is black, boisterous, charismatic; a forbidden fruit. A visual which is placed on the bottom rung of society relative to her, to which she holds no tension, and feels no threat. Tension that would otherwise encourage her to communicate with you with humanity, she approaches you as a caricature, one which far too many black men are forced into becoming. If not for this media image she would discard you, back to the bushes, but in her lust she sees something else entirely; a walking, talking, fantasy.
There is no love in such a relationship, and there is no hope for it, as she doesn't view as an individual. She views you as a channel through which all of her 'gangster' fantasies can be enacted. A caricature with which she can have her fun and then, discard back to the trash; a phase- it never happened, really.

2- The curious.
Some men refer to how many women lust for "the bbc ," and equate it to genuine affinity when that's not he case. Women who hear in rumors, and see on video: pornographic videos of black guys with ridiculous dikks skewering some white bytch, become curious of whether or not the rumors are true, and so samples one herself. If she succeeds in finding a well-endowed Black male she will enjoy him as a toy; a walking, talking dildo to which no respect is given; certainly no possibilities of a LTR.
3- The reject.:scust:
Speaks for itself. She has somehow manged to be a reject in a culture that places no expectations on her, and fukks black guys because she imagines they'll accept her. Unfortunately some do. She is usually overweight, unkempt, rude, and egotistical in her thinking that every black male thirsts over her solely for being white. By large, and majority most don't, but she can still find her lane.
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With this laid out; what is success? Success is staying in your race:ufdup:, but in the event interracial did occur then success would be...the privilege of the default. No caricatures, or expectations outside of the basics. No forced urban vernacular, no idiotic race questions, no forced love for hiphop. Simply being able to approach, and be approached with respect, dignity, and tension for the consequences of not doing so because you are not a side venture, you decide what ventures exist.
 
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