What does being "in love" mean to you?

[Benjamin Sisko]

I want to hear from a female perspective.

Because i was told to ask this to the female who told me she was in love with me but i really didnt know how to answer that

 

[MoonGoddess]

It means you share that girl

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

It means you share that girl

 

[Rawtid]

I think "in love" means you are including this person in the bigger picture of your life...maybe some years into the future. Like if you have dreams of moving to a new city a few years down the line, you really consider how this person will impact that decision.

 

[The Mad Titan]

I think "in love" means you are including this person in the bigger picture of your life...maybe some years into the future. Like if you have dreams of moving to a new city a few years down the line, you really consider how this person will impact that decision.

Never really thought about it like that, but I agree. You can love some one, and not be worried about any of that. But if your in love with them everything you posted holds true.

 

[IShotTheSheriff]

I think "in love" means you are including this person in the bigger picture of your life...maybe some years into the future. Like if you have dreams of moving to a new city a few years down the line, you really consider how this person will impact that decision.

agreed.

and to further that thought, i'd say you must share similar goals or interests in order for it to go beyond lust. if i wish to change certain aspects of the world, my partner must have interests that coincide or compliment my vision.

otherwise we're just filling one another's voids of just existing and being lonely because we feel unfulfilled.

 

[Rawtid]

Never really thought about it like that, but I agree. You can love some one, and not be worried about any of that. But if your in love with them everything you posted holds true.

I think that "love" is natural. For me at least. I typically have a general love for most people. I mean I care about their overall well-being but maybe not the details. In love for me is not only when I start caring about the details, but how those details impact us both.

 

[Rawtid]

agreed.

and to further that thought, i'd say you must share similar goals or interests in order for it to go beyond lust. if i wish to change certain aspects of the world, my partner must have interests that coincide or compliment my vision.

otherwise we're just filling one another's voids of just existing and being lonely because we feel unfulfilled.

I agree about similar goals, but similar interests, I'm not sure that matters to me or would be a deal breaker in me being in love with someone. Similar values for sure but not interests.

 

[bcrusaderw]

I want to hear from a female perspective.

Because i was told to ask this to the female who told me she was in love with me but i really didnt know how to answer that

Poor girl.

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

Poor girl.

Come to a conclusion about a individual based on 4103 posts on a messgeboard brehs

 

[MoonGoddess]

Lmao. You're mean

 

[Ashley Banks]

means nothing to me

 

[Benjamin Sisko]

Lmao. You're mean

To you, maybe, idk if we even interacted .

But I have the love of a quality woman who is heads over heels better then you so idc what u think of me based on what i post on thecoli :fitzumad:

 

[MoonGoddess]

To you, maybe, idk if we even interacted . But u have the love of a quality woman who is heads over heels better then you so idc what u think of me based on what i post on thecoli :fitzumad:

Well, you sure told me

 

[bcrusaderw]

To you, maybe, idk if we even interacted .

But I have the love of a quality woman who is heads over heels better then you so idc what u think of me based on what i post on thecoli :fitzumad:

She can't be that quality if she's interested in you.