What are some traits the people you deal with intimatly have in common

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Female traits?

Probably the one I dealt with that is most irritating is how my exes analyzed and judged me with their girlfriends behind my back.
I mean if you have a question or issue with something I did or didn't do, you can just ask me about it directly.

:manny:

I realize that's just how all women get down. But getting advice or analysis about men from other women is almost always a bad idea.
And almost always wrong.

*edit. The thread title was changed a bit, but I'm still going with what I wrote.
 

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Female traits?

Probably the one I dealt with that is most irritating is how my exes analyzed and judged me with their girlfriends behind my back.
I mean if you have a question or issue with something I did or didn't do, you can just ask me about it directly.

:manny:

I realize that's just how all women get down. But getting advice or analysis about men from other women is almost always a bad idea.
And almost always wrong.

*edit. The thread title was changed a bit, but I'm still going with what I wrote.
Not necessarily just women. I had a problem with this with a bf before. I didn't like how he went to his friends to figure out our situation without coming to me first.

I don't like to share my relationship business with anyone but my s/o. People are judgmental, and that's all they're going to remember.
 

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Not necessarily just women. I had a problem with this with a bf before. I didn't like how he went to his friends to figure out our situation without coming to me first.

I don't like to share my relationship business with anyone but my s/o. People are judgmental, and that's all they're going to remember.
True.
Sharing personal info about your relationships is tricky. I have people I can trust with that stuff. But some stuff needs to stay private. Because you can have an issue with a man or woman, but it can be fixed. But if you tell some people about it...they might never be able to forgive or respect your partner in the same way. It just creates for drama and awkward situations.
 

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True.
Sharing personal info about your relationships is tricky. I have people I can trust with that stuff. But some stuff needs to stay private. Because you can have an issue with a man or woman, but it can be fixed. But if you tell some people about it...they might never be able to forgive or respect your partner in the same way. It just creates for drama and awkward situations.

It depends though...Because sometimes a person with a neutral perspective might open your eyes about a situation....

If its a temporary issue,then no...But if it lingers....then sometimes you gotta go to your "circle"

As men,we need that assistant coach sometimes..lol

Because you might know the "game",but sometimes it hard to see every aspect and make the right choices..

That goes for relationships and the whole 9
 

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It depends though...Because sometimes a person with a neutral perspective might open your eyes about a situation....

If its a temporary issue,then no...But if it lingers....then sometimes you gotta go to your "circle"

As men,we need that assistant coach sometimes..lol

Because you might know the "game",but sometimes it hard to see every aspect and make the right choices..

That goes for relationships and the whole 9
I agree.
I have friends and family come to me to vent about things. And I like to think that I'm a good listener without being too judgmental. But I just think that everyone has a certain level that they can't go to with everyone.

Like someone might share with me a fight they had with their man or woman.
But they might not share, say...that they are considering abortion? You know. I'm just saying 1 example. Everyone has limits.
 

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It depends though...Because sometimes a person with a neutral perspective might open your eyes about a situation....

If its a temporary issue,then no...But if it lingers....then sometimes you gotta go to your "circle"

As men,we need that assistant coach sometimes..lol

Because you might know the "game",but sometimes it hard to see every aspect and make the right choices..

That goes for relationships and the whole 9
give me an example of a situation u feel is something youd have to go to your circle for
 

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To give a more revised answer to the updated thread title...
None of the last 3 women I dated lasted longer than 3-4 months. And all 3 of them had some drama they were just getting over.
Not that I consider their past any of my business, really. But this one girl I dated while I was living in Cali ended up telling me that she was concerned because some ex that she dated 6 years prior was getting paroled. :merchant:

She wasn't afraid of being hurt, just that he'd probably be in the neighborhood and it might creep her out.. Apparently she had been heavy into gangs and all that in her early 20s.
You really wouldn't know it from talking to her or looking at her though.
 
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