what advice would u give a brother who's trying to get with a black woman

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rejection from black women is temporary
black women will reject you then give you some of that p*ssy when her current guy starts acting up or gets another woman...

I heard a girl once say I would never fukk with him...then I saw them with a kid a year later
 

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Hit the gym.
Dress good.
Have an edge/hood in you, not too much, just enough to get their panties wet.
Dont be too reliable, they love a bit of mind games, dont pick up calls, make them miss you,
Elicite all types of emotions in them, they want a roller coaster of emotions,happiness, sadness, make them cry etc or they will think you boring.
 

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Really just be yourself and date whoever wants to date you

Go to places with things you're interested in and see if you can find a black woman there.

As long as she's not a bedwenching c00n or chasing after ball players or thug nikkas you should be good...

Unless you are into those types.

Hit up a lounge as well... In a black side of town. Not a club but an actual lounge or some happy hour shyt. Lots of single ladies winding down from the day/week
 

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rejection from black women is temporary
black women will reject you then give you some of that p*ssy when her current guy starts acting up or gets another woman...

I heard a girl once say I would never fukk with him...then I saw them with a kid a year later

Hit the gym.
Dress good.
Have an edge/hood in you, not too much, just enough to get their panties wet.
Dont be too reliable, they love a bit of mind games, dont pick up calls, make them miss you,
Thats not just black women. White women play games too they just better at it b/c they passive aggressive with they shyt. But the end result is the same.

And getting a black woman to date you is not hard if 1. You around black women meaning you don't live in a place where the black women are scarce. 2. You're attracted to black women.

Ask yourself the above questions if you can't do the above just date other races no harm.
 

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Thats not just black women. White women play games too they just better at it b/c they passive aggressive with they shyt. But the end result is the same.

And getting a black woman to date you is not hard if 1. You around black women meaning you don't live in a place where the black women are scarce. 2. You're attracted to black women.

Ask yourself the above questions if you can't do the above just date other races no harm.
I agree, it applies to most woman of every race. All women want an interesting/fun guy, with an edge who doesnt worship them.
 

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Hit the gym.
Dress good.
Have an edge/hood in you, not too much, just enough to get their panties wet.
Dont be too reliable, they love a bit of mind games, dont pick up calls, make them miss you,
Elicite all types of emotions in them, they want a roller coaster of emotions,happiness, sadness, make them cry etc or they will think you boring.
Sounds exhausting
 

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if you want a great black woman with virtues you have to be a man of purpose, strength, discipline, faith, independence, morality, integrity and love.

If you want an average woman then all you need is decent clothes, haircut, car, house, and income. Just be prepared for a life of misery dealing with a Babylonian whore
 

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Sounds exhausting
Easiest way is be yourself but confident.

Like, be in to your hobbies than your woman. If your lady calls you while playing video games or watching sports, dont pick up. Enjoy going out with your boys than being laid up under your woman all the time. Take your lady to places you enjoy, then once in a bluemoon you go to places she likes. If your lady pisses you off, come on to her like a tonne of bricks, check her and put her in her place.

Doing that automatically makes you achieve things on that list.

Like right now I working overtime. I chose to work Saturday & my girl sulking & missing me at my crib, I put making money ahead of spending time with her. I just elicited emotions of her missing me, when I go home she will be on my d1ck, valueing my time with her.

Past girlfriends I would make mistakes of being too available, always being under them, doing what ever they wanted, they all got bored breh
 
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